k,here's the situation.I went out with someone last year and we broke up after about 3 and a half months.This year, we began dating again and have been together about 1-2 months.I heard some rumors that after we broke up last year he was saying that he got PAID to go out with me.I'm pretty sure those rumors are true because they come from very reliable sources.I mean, I said some things after we broke up too but nothing that would really hurt him.And now, a lot of people are saying that he's getting "paid" again... should this affect our relationship? Maybe I should break up with him?
2006-09-26 16:41:07 · 11 answers · asked by x_new_violence_x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
confront him with the information you have from your sources and include their names because these are the people who can back up your information and if everything proves true twice then break up with him but be sure to hear his side of the story first before anything....
2006-09-26 16:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him if he is getting paid to take you out?
Ask him. If the reply is yes, dump him. If the reply is no, keep going out if you want, if you don't want to, don't. I definitely would not want to go out with someone who was paid to do it. But that's just me, maybe other people feel differently?
2006-09-26 23:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him aboutif he is gonna try to make up a story and its not gonna be believable just broke up with him....use ur instinct...
just talk to him and u will know
2006-09-26 23:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the big question is who's paying him?
oh man.
regardless, dump the dude. find somene else that dont need money to see you.
i almost did it once. but i woke up to the reality of it.
2006-09-26 23:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him with this information. If he says yea he said it, dump him.
2006-09-26 23:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by shantiqua_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, if people are sayin that, that will affect your relationship, in fact, it doesn't say alot about you, I would move on, you must be worth more...
2006-09-26 23:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by wonderin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS A HUGE WORLD OUT THERE PLEASE DON'T RESTRICT YOURSELF TO A RELATIONSHIP FILLED WITH GOSSIP AND INNUENDO.WHETHER HE SAID HE WAS PAID OR NOT THERE WELL HAS ALREADY BEEN POISONED MOVE ON.
2006-09-26 23:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want half of the money!!! :-)
Don't tell him HOW MUCH YOU WERE PAID for going out with him!
:) :) :-)
2006-09-26 23:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's paying him ... and why would they pay him??? Yes you should break up with him ... that's extremely demeaning .. unless you like what people are saying behind your back ...
2006-09-26 23:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want your share /or else /i find it hard to beleive what kind of person would do that
2006-09-26 23:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by J33317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋