I'm 24. I feel like i care of my bf than my parents!!! I hardly to take my mom shopping and dinner outsite but I usually go with my bf. I angry my bf when he back late or didn't call me but never angry my parents like didn't care. I want to close to my bf and miss him all the time like 4get my parents. But I always miss them when I cry or argue with my bf!!! U think is it naturally for human when we have someone who I care we will 4get parents??? P.s. I still love my parents but just feel care of my bf than them!!!
2006-09-26 16:30:04 · 9 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men come.
Men go.
Family stays forever.
Don't break your ties with your family.
2006-09-26 16:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon. You can still care for you parents, but there is a time when your needs for a family of your own must take precedent. Part of the marriage vows is that you sever your ties with your parents and become one with your partner. I think your question could have been worded a bit different. Is there a time when your bf takes priorities on a daily basis. Yes. In the event of a family crisis, you will make yourself available as needed, but for day in day out activities, it focuses on home. Your home is with your significant other.
2006-09-26 16:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok first off your sentences make no freaking sense! From what I could understand....i have been w/ my bf for 3 years and yes i do love him and would rather spend time w/ him than my parents and thats normal..you grow up and you fall in love and you make a new family of your own....you will always care for your parents but you have a different kind of love for your parents than you do for your bf...thats just how life is. I still enjoy spending time w/ my parents...and try to as often as I can...i keep in contact w/ them and call them atleast a few times a week. Its def. normal for you to feel this way. My mom always told me that your bf/gf/husband/wife after awhile will know you better than your own parents do and its true.
2006-09-26 16:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by BabyBlues 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all learn how to write a sentenced. it's not that you don;t care for your parents you just have a life and you are not two people so learn how to also budget your time and it seems as though you need to work on your self esteem a little too the man is not always going to be around so you need not forget about your parents cause when that man or another man breaks your heart you will always have your parents to help you though and speaking as a parent where used to gettin ignored just dont forget the holidays and our damn grandchildren sp we ca turn them against you
2006-09-26 16:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by cwannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I am going to say this... Our mate (bf or gf) should ADD TO our life, not BE our life.
You should never put so much of yourself into one person that you forget everything that makes you or you are.
Your parents will always love you no matter how rotten you treat them but it isn't fair to them to be pushed out of your life just because you have a bf.
If you don't learn to balance your life with family, friends, lover, work, education, children and whatever else; you will have many problems in the future. Never be so consumed with one aspect of your life that you lose sight of everything else.
2006-09-26 16:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the bible, if you're religious, there is passage that states that your spouse and your family should come before your parents and your childhood family.
You don't cut ties, but once you grow up and get into a relationship (especially a marriage commitment), you are supposed to put your new family ahead of your childhood family.
2006-09-26 16:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
u need 2 find balance on attention. life is like a mathematical quiz. without balance you can get 2 different kinds of results.
2006-09-26 16:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by punk_goth_kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are emotionally attached to him. Not good but it happens. You have to remember that your family will still be there when he gets bored of you and leaves.
2006-09-26 16:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by I luv THICK gurlz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What language are you trying to speak?????
2006-09-26 16:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋