is it gay if you want to be friends w/ another guy? like, not in a relationship, but hoping to be friends with another guy? what do ya'll think??
2006-09-26 16:07:27 · 22 answers · asked by mcstennis09 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry.... i meant if you want to befriend him... like... WANTING him to be your friend...
2006-09-26 16:27:36 · update #1
wanting to befriend someone isnt gay....it just means you think the person is cool, and you'd like that personality to surround you.
2006-09-26 16:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by kaye t 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Didn't you see the episode of "Seinfield" when Jerry made friends with a famous baseball player and after a week the ballplayer asked Jerry if he could help him move and Jerry said he thought it was a little soon for that. I guess its easier with us women, because we can want to be friends with someone and be open about it. Anyway, I think its great if you find someone with traits that you admire and you want to befriend them.
2006-09-26 23:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by starmoishe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting a guy to be your friend. Just use some tact in asking him to be your friend. Don't just blurt out "WILL YOU BE MY FRIEND?" or anything as 'Forrest Gump' as that. Ask him if he wants to hang out, or watch a sports event together (you know, something guys do). If you come on to strong, he may think you're fruity or just desperate. Just be yourself and see if he wants to do something with you.
2006-09-26 23:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought all guys wanted other guy friends? Its not gay, its normal!
2006-09-26 23:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its gay - unless in the back of you mind you want to do someting with him that could be considered gay. But not just wanting to be his friend... not at all
2006-09-26 23:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Myzz Undastood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not gay! But it sounds like you may have envy. I would think about the reasons why you want to be friends with him.
2006-09-26 23:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by M J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you spend so much time worrying about being gay? You don't think men can be friends? Relax! Seriously, don't be so paranoid!
2006-09-26 23:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont thik so so, guys mostly to bond with each other especially when they have the same interest so why hesitate to be friends with another guy.
2006-09-26 23:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 23:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. Not gay at all. But to ask that question is
2006-09-26 23:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by gatlic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋