my boyfriend is living far from me!and i find it hard to trust him but i really really love him so much!one of the reason why i find it hard to trust him because his ex girlfriend always txting me and telling that my boyfriend doest love me!my boyfriend tell just egnore it because that was not true!but still i cant!my boyfriend alays telling me that he dont want to lost me and always telling me that he really love me!iwant to believe him!but how i have a doubt!taht he will do my ex boyfriend did!my ex boyfiend decieve me before!i afraid taht it may happen again!please help me!!
2006-09-26 16:07:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really love him as you said you do, why break off with him? It will be very unfair on his part if you do that when he really loves you.
Don't believe what other people say or will say about him. Don't belive her ex-gf in whatever she tells you for chances are what she says are not true and she is just up to getting him back.
For as long as you, youself, have not found or discovered something foul that your boyfriend does which is detrimental to your relationship, love and trust him, even more.
Don't let distance and lack of trust ruin your relationship. You and that man deserve to be happy together, someday, somehow, if you both love each other truly. All the best.
2006-09-26 16:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some advice:
Don't live in the past (for instance you boyfriend now is not your ex)
The text messages from his ex girlfriend (is a little to much drama)
What I can suggest is examine you original question "Do I need to continue my relationship with my boyfriend even he was far away from me?" To answer that question you truely dont need to do anything except what you want to do!
2006-09-26 16:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is his ex texting you....and why does she have your text number....are you friends with her? Is she telling you this as a warning, because she experienced that he cannot be trusted?
I long distance relationship is complicated as it is....you don't need anybody else making it more complicated. Do you trust your boyfriend? Did he earn this trust while he was with you? If the answer to both is yes...then give it a chance...if the answers are no....move on...love is supposed to make you smile.
2006-09-26 16:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do face the same problem before. In the end,both of us broke up because time and distance makes us less trust towards each other. For me, you need to think the pro's and con's of the relationship...if's there is a window to survive,keep it. If not, just leave him because his ex-girl might turns up into something! You deserve the best,girl! Good luck...
2006-09-26 16:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by dina22 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Without trust a relationship cannot move forward. If you cannot find a way to trust him, you should consider ending the relationship.
2006-09-26 16:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to let him go! See what happens then!
2006-09-26 16:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋