2006-09-26 15:35:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
four months is a long time. . . in my opinion you should have told him about this a long time ago. Nevertheless it doesnt matter anymore cause that is no longer an option. . . What you need to do is be completely honest with him at this point. Tell him the truth and tell him soon, before someone else does, and before he notices it. Im actually quite shocked that he hasnt already!! I know that it is easier said than done, but sweetheart, you have to tell him. he might be angry, but imagine how angry he will be if he has to hear it from a source other than yourself? Sit him down, and just tell him the truth, and be prepared to answer him when he asks why you didnt tell him sooner. . .
2006-09-26 15:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me two years ago. my girlfriend was about 4 mos pregnant. It was one of those things where i could kind of guess it by the look in her face, and the fact she wanted me to sit down...lol My biggest advice is relax!!! worrying wont help anything. Also your boyfriend will have some of his opinion based on your reaction. if you act panicked, it might cause him more worry. i am not saying blow it off, or tell him like you were just saying what time it is. but it is not the end of the world. Babies start really slow. they sleep a whole lot in the beginning. Also, it takes two people to get pregnant. so dont go around feeling guilty like its all your fault. i was scared, and not ready. But that all changed when i saw him. He is sitting in my lap right now, and i love it. Remember, its not the end of the world, it just means you have some responsibility. The pro's definitely outway the cons. That baby is half of both of you. Whats so bad about that. Send me an email if you are worried about anything else.
2006-09-26 15:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him straight out. There is no telling how he will react. If he's mature enough, he might be excited, but if he isn't ready to be a father, don't expect him to be happy. Don't wait too much longer, if he figures it out on his own it will hurt him and make the situation worse.
2006-09-26 15:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well their is no telling how he will react because I dont know him, but I would say you better tell him quick before he relizes your in labor! I would just sit him down one night and say it, tell him that you want to keep the baby (if thats the choice, or adoption) whatever you want then tell him you love him but your willing to do it with or with out him and you hope that he is willing to be apart of it. If your really scared you can have someone there with you to tell him, but more like a moderator you still need to be the one to say it, GOOD luck sweetie
2006-09-26 15:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by heathersasmom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him that your pregnant. Some men are happy and some are not. But you however did not get pregnant all by yourself. He needs to stand up and take responsibility whether he wants too or not.
2006-09-27 05:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you tell him in person! i made that mistake, and as to how he will react all depends on your relationship situation. if you two are happy and plan on a future he will stick around, if he gets scared he may possibly want to run. but just be calm and talk things out.....and hope for the best :)
good luck
2006-09-26 15:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by taceysay02@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your bf...and I'm guessing that no one else on here does either...so we don't know how he will react..
and you just say...I'm pregnant..
OR you could right him a note if you can't say the words..I know I couldn't when I had to tell my bf...he might be a little mad that you kept it from him for four months..but he'll either get over it...leave...or whatevr..you just have to face those consequences..not always easy...but hey..Good Luck~
2006-09-26 15:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Tamara J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i was freshly divorced and just starting in on a new relationship when about a month later i found myself sitting in my bathroom staring at a digital prego test that read "pregnant". when my bf came over, i was sitting outside smoking a cigarette (i had several that day, then quit) and i told him that i had a lil something to say. he sat there with me, lighted up a cig for himself, said "wow, oh, my god, wow, are you sure?, wow, you are positive?" REPEATEDLY. told me he'd be rite back, returned not even 5 mins later w/ a 12pck of beer, repeated the above statements, then we cried and worried like crazy what we were gonna do. it didnt take him long to start calling me "lil mommy" and getting all psyched up over baby names and crib sets, tho!!!
2006-09-26 15:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and if he is one that dont want kids he will most likely be one to say its not mine or get rid of it or he may be excited.... but you know what his personality is you will know when its the right time to tell him but better be soon cuz your going to start to show if not already...good luck...
2006-09-26 15:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by ..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him straight. If he's a man, he'll accept and run with it. If he's a dog, he'll run scared of it. Either way it's the new fact of life so I'd start making plans.
2006-09-26 15:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋