I think they're sooooo sexy, and attractive, I've never dated one before
Theres this white guy at my job who's sooo hot? I always talk and joke around with him, but im ready to move to the next level with him..
Being with plenty of black guys, I already know what they want but what about white guys..How should I go about trying to date him without being too pushy..
What would be a white guys positive perspective if a Beautiful (LOL) black girl like me wanted to date you after seven months of joking and flirting with you? And you pretty much got to know me?
I would love to hear somebodys insight, preferably a white guy
And please spare me..No racist turds, go start your own drama
-Thanx
2006-09-26 15:33:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
If there is an attraction toward each other, I'd say go for it.
...but remember, white guys are no different than black guys. :0)
...btw, I was one of those white guys ;0)
2006-09-26 15:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have loved it. I just never had the right timing with the black women I met. Also, I acted too white. Some of them found that a turn off. I can't do the Eminem spiel. It's just not in me.
2006-09-26 15:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love interracial relationships! As you can see by my avatar, I'm not white. But I think for the most part black and white guys are alike (Depending on where you live) if your from the south, then good luck! If your from a big city on the coast, then you might have a better chance.
Become an "oreo" that turns many guys on.
2006-09-26 15:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rayman 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy, but I am a white girl who has dated both black and white guys so maybe I can help a little. Where black guys are forward white guys tend to be more standoffish about asking you out. Bring it up. He may not know (and please don't take this wrong) that you would be willing to date white guys. Bring the subject up and say something like, "I've never dated a white guy, but if I were going to it'd be someone like you." or something along those lines. Whatever you do, if he likes you he likes you for you, so don't go changing who you are to please him.
Good luck!
2006-09-26 15:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Christina D 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If I had a chance to date a black girl I would jump at the chance. I think it would be alot of fun, exciteing and interesting and I wouldent care what other people thought. Being white you would be suprised how many white guys talk about black girls. Really if you are attracted to someone then why hide it. No matter what color or race we are God created us all in his image so if it feels right then it is right.
2006-09-26 15:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by BobbyG 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
from one sister to another i dated a white guy its no different than a black guy he's just a man. be yourself and let the charm come out in you. If you think this guy is hot u should ask him out. All he could say is yes or no. If he say yes go for it full thortal if he say no dont feel bad. you cant hurt over something that was not yours just keep beign you and eventually you find your white prince.
2006-09-26 15:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by moe 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go get him, he seems like a cool guy. I never dated a white guy either, but I have gone out with a lot of Latino boys.
2006-09-27 00:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself i'm a black girl but white guys have had crushes on me they like black girls and i don't think they care so much for the color of your skin it's just a color what's in your heart it a bigger obstacle to win over and well if your interested just go for it you'll never know until you try don't be to forward just invite him out one day after work and well if theres sparks take it from there goodluck
2006-09-26 16:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by flyinghigh006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To like or not like someone just because of skin color is racism.
You like a man who just happens to be white, he may be thinking the same , Talk about interracial relationships and see what he thinks. Lots of luck for both of you.There are still many out there who think it is their business who people are with.
2006-09-26 15:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it might be fun for a while as its different but you might not get fully satisfied because white men arnt big like black men, but for a while it'll be fun because its something new and different but in the long term i dont think you'd be happy.
2006-09-26 15:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nice Guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋