that would really show me how much he truly loves me....like he says he does...something that really tells the truth...and please don't say I shoiuld ask him to marry me*LOL*
2006-09-26 15:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
neither one wants anymore children*L*....we are in our 40's
2006-09-26 15:22:50 · update #1
this is a serious question...so keep the stupid "sick' answers to yourself!
2006-09-26 15:23:39 · update #2
there is no one question. and if there was every guy would know it and it would do you little or no good.
2006-09-26 15:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he will put you on his checking account. If he would pay all the bills if you lived together. If he would give you his check so you can deposit it and pay the bills from a joint account ( both of you). Money is the one thing that people need to survive and we all work very hard for our money. It is our survival. If he will do ANY of those things then he loves you truly. Unfortunately, any other thing he can say yes to, but you have to " hit him where it hurts" so to speak. I wish there were other things like ...will you do this or that. It just doesn't work that way.
2006-09-26 15:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Trying to trick someone into a right answer never works. You sound like you want very badly to hear a particular answer. You already have, but for some reason doubt it.
Start by asking yoruself what makes you doubt the answer he has already given. Does he ignore you, hit you, spend more time with his friends, etc.? Some people grew up in a home without much love, so their definition is different than yours. They say they love you, but their demonstrated actions don't say it, so you doubt them.
I thought I had a happy childhood until I met my wife. She was constantly touching, hugging, and kissing (things not done much in my home). My definition of love was paying attention to her, listening, and having a good time (concerts, nights out, etc). hers was something different. I "crossed over" and became more "touching". That met her definition and she has never doubted me since. That was when I was 25. If you are in your 40's it is MUCH harder for him to change and exhibit all the behaviors that say to you that he loves you (in a way you accept and believe).
Ask him what he loves about you. Tell him what you love about him. Tell him what gives you doubts sometimes and see what he says. I think you will find you just have different definitions and expectations, which is OK - you just have to know what those are in order to believe him.
Hope that helps!
2006-09-26 15:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by jumping_in_101 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not ask such a question, it is disrespectful to him. Does he go out of the way to do things to make you happy? Does he do things for you in general that make you happy?
A guy who loves a woman will do things to make her happy because he wants too not because he is asked to and if he is doing that, then don't insult him by asking him to do something to prove it.
I just read my answer and I don't mean to come off as harsh, so please don't think I was. Sorry about that.
If you feel you have to ask then, you are not seeing what he does for you.
Now, if he is treating you badly and you want to know what to do to find out if he truly loves you, then you need to break it off, because he is not respecting you.
2006-09-26 15:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I don't believe that you can figure out if he loves you from a single question..I wish life would be that simple. Don't even think to make him fight with his friends or his family for you, it's unethical. In your position I would try to read between the lines with little tests. Make him to sacrifice some of his own time/money/thoughts for you to see If he's willing to. But don't overdo it. If you believe he want's you for something else rather than your real self and that your relationship is based on that, try taking that component away and see what happens.
that's what works for me :)
good luck
2006-09-26 15:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ringo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do women assume that a man would spend any time at all with them, tell them "I Love You" just for kicks and giggles? It can't be all about you. You are not all about him. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you. What do you want? A dog? A man that acts like a dog is no longer a man, but whipped...henpecked. Is that really what you want? We men love you women! What's up with you all????
2006-09-26 15:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by navigate100 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find one of the busiest places around..and ask for a kiss or find a place thats playing slow soft music and have him dance with you in public.....if he does his eyes will set on your eyes and look no where else but your eyes...His eyes should be on you..nobody else but you
2006-09-26 15:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to make out with your mom, because that's what you'll look like someday. (Unless you look more like your dad...)
This answer IS meant to be serious.
2006-09-26 15:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by something'srotten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if i can never have children, will u marry me?
2006-09-26 15:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
would he give his life for yours?
2006-09-26 15:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋