Me and my boyfriend been together over a year.when been through alot together we finally decided to move in together.everything was great then he started pushing me away he has been hurt really bad in past relationship.I snooped on his cell phone an lied about looking on there the truth came out but he say he cannot trust me can we fix the situation if we really love eachother.
2006-09-26 15:16:46 · 8 answers · asked by Jluckie28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you dont want to be hurt just like he was hurt in the past and if you going through his cell phone is personal to him then he is trying to hide something, whould you let him look throught your phone...sure ya would cause you have nothing to hide. Tell him you want to know why he is pushing you away. Just tell him you need to talk and keep things honest. If he has another girl tell him to be honest and let you know so you can find a new place to live , and bring up the cell phone thing he should say he cant trust you becasue you looked in his phone, that seems fishy, ask him why, ask lots of questions. If he wont answer you dont waste your time with him you can find some one who can communicate with you.
2006-09-26 15:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by ashleyeb23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me I know exactly what your going threw! Sometimes you have to be a snoop just to set your mind and heart at ease! If you guys truely love each other you'll work threw it! Just remember Love makes you do crazy and/or stupid things sometimes!
2006-09-26 22:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by giasarai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have to be willing to fix your relationship or it will crumble. Go to him and ask him what does he want. If you have been with him for a year then you can save ur relationship. Be open with each other. He loves you and any man knows that love is hard to find. I wish you and him luck.
2006-09-26 22:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nelly 452 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok me and man are going 2 be moving in wit each other next year and my man can trust me and i can trust him and try 2 work things out wit him and if he cant trust u then yall realtionship should be over.
2006-09-26 22:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad move. Never move in together or have sex before you're married.
2006-09-26 22:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IF HE TRULY LOVED YOU , ANYTHING THATS HIS WOULD AUTOMATICALLY BECOME YOURS TOGETHER , LIKE HE SHOULDNT CARE IF YOU LOOK AT HIS CELL PHONE!
2006-09-26 22:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you started to be together thats why..there's still too many things to discover..
2006-09-26 22:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He LIED, What else is there to say?
2006-09-26 22:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋