kay, well i said that i missed the freedom of being single. and now hes mad at me. how do i fix this?
2006-09-26 15:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but i love him ALOT. and i didnt mean it like the way it sounded!
2006-09-26 15:19:16 · update #1
this weekend is a big party , and i dont wanna hook up with anyone but him. but that comment made him think otherwise..
2006-09-26 15:21:10 · update #2
Okay, you were a bit clunky about it, but you expressed that you need a little room in your relationship.
What do you miss about being single? Hanging more with friends? Doing stuff alone? Do you feel a little claustrophobic with your boyfriend?
Retrace your steps, apologize for the insensitive way you expressed your feelings, and then explain exactly what you meant. Let him know that perhaps you need a little breathing room. Assure him that you want to be together (if that's true) but there are some things that you haven't been able to do since the start of the relationship.
His maturity level be apparent with his reaction.
2006-09-26 15:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you say it? He's probably more hurt than mad. Probably the best way to fix it is to spend a few days apart and figure out what you really want and not go back with him just because you feel bad or just because you're lonely or just because you're confused. Get uncofused and get your words straight before you talk with him again. It's only fair to him and to yourself.
2006-09-26 15:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You expressed your feelings and their is nothing wrong with that. If you love him, tell him so. If he can't take the heat, then he needs to get out of the kitchen (old saying). Their is nothing wrong w/ missing your freedom. I would suggest you evaluate the relationship. Is he con trolling? Is he pouting to controll you? Are you happy? I'm guessing your young, you have plenty of time to settle down, just don't settle.
2006-09-26 15:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will he be at this party? If he is going to be there than go to the party BY YOURSELF and try and hook up with him there. Maybe after seeing you show up solo he will think twice about what you said and be more acceptable to listening to why you said what you did and what exactly you meant.
2006-09-26 15:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by christina s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get single.............and see how much you miss the LACK of freedom that dating creates.
You were probably truthful about what you said to him.
If he can't handle your honesty...............find someone who will.
DON'T change what you think and feel just to make a boy-friend more comfortable.
There is someone who will appreciate you for EVERYTHING that is YOU.
Go find him...........QUICK !!!!!!
2006-09-26 15:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love the feeling of being single but you also like having a bf to come home to or to be there for you
2006-09-26 15:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by lizzerie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become single.
2006-09-26 15:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was the truth im sure apologize for hurting him but not for your feelings EVERYONE at one time or another misses singlehoodism when they become a couple at one point in time or another but reassure him that you do want to stay in the relationship
2006-09-26 15:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sorry, apologize.
2006-09-26 15:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋