i have this friend. she was in my classs since grade 2 to now.sometimes shes really annoying and bitchy and i hate it!!!!she always likes it when i say something wrong.shes sorta my best friend but right now i HATE her.and i wanna do something bad to her.What can i do?
2006-09-26 15:11:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop being friends with her, I know what its like to have a friend thats a total and complete conceited, spolied, bossy, stupid, smart alec, *****. Don't stay miserable for the rest of your lif ebecause of a bad friend, tell her that maybe you shouldn't be friends anymore because she hasn't being treating like a good friend lately. And that even though not everyone is perfect it doesn't give people the ability to act like a jerk (don't use the word jerk with her). If she doesn't leave you alone after that, get a restraining order.
2006-09-26 15:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just rethink this whole "friendship" thing with this person. If she was really your friend would she be looking for you to say something wrong all the time? If she was really your friend, would you really be hating her at the moment? Those don't seem to be the traits of a friend I'd like to have. About the whole "doing something bad" to her, that's kind of childish. Don't stoop to her level, and just put that notion in the back of your head. Just stop hanging around with her, don't even talk to her anymore, if she's going to treat you like that. You don't need to put up with her crap. just go get some new friends. I know it's going to be hard since you guys new each other since 2nd grade, but you just need to distance yourself as far away from her as you possibly can, and, as I said before, find some new friends who will actually be friends to you, and pick you up when you fall instead of beating you even farther down. I hope this helped! Good luck!
2006-09-26 22:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by T.J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing what your thinking is not a good idea. It only brings you down too her level.The word is not hate, it's dislike but if I were you I'd find another friend. Friends do not belittle friends, Particularly in front of others. A friend is a person who will stand by your side through thick and thin and help in what ever circumstances arises. Also They don"t laugh at ones inadequacies, they help to rectify them. Take a step back and look at this friend, and say to yourself, is she really a friend or an adversary. Say to yourself I'm a good person, and I am better then this.
2006-09-26 22:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by aotea s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.Number 1: take the high road. If you find her annoying and bitchy, then I would say she is not much of a friend. And what you say isn't wrong, its your opinion, which you are entitled too. Additionally, she may have self-esteem issues, which she demonstrates by putting you down. My advice: find new friends, just because you have known someone for a long time does not mean they have you best interest at heart. In my opinion friendships and relationships take their course. Sometimes they survive the best of times and sometimes they fall by the wayside.
2006-09-26 22:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can and should do is first ask Jesus for forgiviness for thinking about doing something bad to your "friend". Second, you pray for her well being. Third, you do something nice for her like take her to lunch.
Isn't that what friends do?????? Or did you forget the meaning of friendship?
2006-09-26 22:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let be, kid. She was your friend, you should do something helping her being good again. Never think about anything bad to her. Hate leads wrong.
2006-09-26 22:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like this girl, then explain to her what it is that is bothering you about her. Doing something bad to her isn't going to solve anything.
2006-09-26 22:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything bad! You are BETTER than that. If That is the way she is----then you need to be the more mature one. Don't stoop to her level! Can she rise up to YOUR level?
2006-09-26 22:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thought your a friend? how come you want to do something bad to her? if in any case,you'll do something bad to her,well then you dont have the right to call her your friend because seemingly, you are her enemy..
2006-09-26 22:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and as the others said SMILE
2006-09-26 22:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by migamw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋