ok someone told my best friends that i did something that i didnt do and now my best friend wont belive me she thinks that i did it and i just dont know what to do!
2006-09-26 15:10:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just sit down and seriously and clearly explain that you didnt do it, and you feel that she doesnt trust you. She is taking someone else's word over yours, and you are concerned. You want her to be friends with you, but if she doesnt trust you then maybe she shouldnt be.
2006-09-26 15:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by BMac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what she thinks you did but if this friend truly knows you then she should be able to "tell" whether you would actually do what she is accusing you of. Otherwise I would leave her alone because the more you deny your guilt the more guilty you look. You've already told her you didn't do it - let her calm down. Hopefully, if she really is your friend, she'll come back to mend the relationship. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 22:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Karen N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Best Friend, knows you, she will think about the situation and know it could not have been you. I hope you have already told her that you didn't do what your accuser says you did. Just let it cool off a day or two, then try again to talk to her. If she truly is your friend, she will listen, if not,..... maybe her friendship is questionable?
2006-09-26 22:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol good luck explaining... and also why would your friend suspect you? think of your everyday interactions with your friend. What reasons did you give her to not trust you. Most of the time if two people are best friends they would trust each other. So from what happened here i wouldn't consider her ot be your best friend.
2006-09-26 22:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to prove to ur friend you didn't do it. you need to come up with some sort of way that she'll believe you, lay something on the line that she knows you wouldn't put on the line if you didn't mean what you said...do whatever you can to gain her trust again,,, if she's a true best friend they'll come around
2006-09-26 22:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only try to explain what actually happened,,,,,give her some time and once she has calmed down approach her again...if that doesnt work get the someone that lied, your best friend and yourself together and have it out....it not so easy to lie when the person you are lying about is there....hopefully the truth will come out......good luck
2006-09-26 22:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find an aliby or something. or tell your friend that he/she should be able to trust you when you say you didn't do anything, that they can believe you or not. And that she/he isn't beng a good friend if they don't even consider other possibilities that it isn't you who did whatever you did/did not do.
2006-09-26 22:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she aint really a friend she shouldnt be believin he say she say bull **** ne way that dont do nothin but make people look dumb but she is not a good friend.
you need to call and talk to her and see what was said and tell her that you would never do ne thing like that to hurt her.
2006-09-26 22:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by chocolatedrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Moto is if you don't believe me I don't care as long as I know that I didn't do it in my eyes it doesn't matter.Try Ignoring Her she'll come to you sooner or later.Good Luck
2006-09-26 22:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you did not do it apologize for the event that lead her to believe you did and forget about it. If she cannot except that it is her loss not yours.
2006-09-26 22:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋