It feels as bad , as " friends with benefits"?
2006-09-26 15:09:43 · 9 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends. If they are in the process of divorce then I think its up to you. YOU are the one that will have to put your relationship on hold if you want to get more involved..engagement, etc. If you want to wait and get to know the person as they are going through their process then just stay friends don't get to serious. Date others. Never date anyone who hasn't been divorced for at least 2 years. They need time to adjust and you don't want to be a rebound. Good luck and God bless
2006-09-26 15:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you are making the right choice, for you and for them. Someone who is freshly seperated is still partially holding onto the past. If they are dating after only a few months of seperation then they haven't really let go of that attachment to love, and they are seeking that love in you that they found in their partner. This love for the other person doesn't need to die, but it needs not be sought out after either. When people fall in love, it just happens. I wasn't looking when I found my ex, we just clicked and hit things off, but then that love turned sour... we may not have been right for each other. You have to understand that real love isn't sought after, the love comes, for a reason, for a season, or for a lifetime. Sometimes its all three, but not so much anymore, these days. Besides, you would be a rebound relationship, and who wants that anyway? I'm not dating for a while. Because I have personal issues to deal with. I'm not seeking out my ex, or anyone new. I'm just working on my anger, and things I learned that led to our breakup. The seperation should be a time for him to truly look at himself, and not just jump into new relationships. He won't find himself in you, and he won't find his old flame in you, either. So, I say that you are doing the most loving thing, which is allowing him the space he needs to grow as a person.
2006-09-26 22:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Lonely Skywolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can determine if you are right or wrong. If it feels wrong or bad then it's something that you shouldn't do. Good luck.
2006-09-26 22:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't necessarily wrong, but it definitely isn't wise, depending on how long they have been separated.
2006-09-26 22:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong and it's a sin. God calls it adultery. Go and examine your heart.
2006-09-26 22:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by dgt1978@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone seperated is still married. it is wrong to date them
just my opinion
2006-09-26 22:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if they cant commit and they cant commit to a divorce what does that say?
2006-09-26 22:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-26 22:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by jessegriffin@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong!!!
2006-09-26 22:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋