If your partner dreams about having sex with someone else?

Question

e.g. celebrities or other real people.

Do you consider that cheating?

or do you follow the look and don't touch principle?

This one is a tough one to draw the line.

Answer 1

well, me and my bf have a very loving relationship.. we've been dating for a year and a half now, and we are not the kind of people to cheat. he has told me dreams he has had about random girls, and i have had dreams about having sex with random guys.. now this doesnt mean we want to do it with that person, it just means that we were feeling pretty horny during our dream, and your horomones can affect your dreams.. now if it was someone we do know.. it can be beacause you have mentioned the person, that person has came up in their subconsious.. i.e..i had a dream about a guy i havnt seen in years and havnt thought about in years.. but that is just in our case..also, in the dream i enjoyed it very much.. but in real life, i would never want to have sex with someone other than my bf, because in real life, im not that stimulated by other guys, and do not love them in great amounts.. and if it is certain female celebrities he is dreaming about, guys are very horny and still have basic instincts of animals.. a guy natually will dream of or check out a very attractive female because they are instinctually looking for a mate.. someone who they thinks have good attributes for their future family.. that doesnt mean they still dont like your attributes..now if this is a chic that he knows or sees, he could possibly have a sexual attraction to her, and there is really no way to stop that.. unless you are completely commited and have no desires ever for other people you could possibly see yourself in the future with, he will still have those dreams..

Answer 2

It is just a dream. It is with both, Celebrities and real people. I follow the look and don't touch principle. Now, on the other hand, I have had a dream that my partner was having sex with someone else and I have woken up very mad and crabby.

Answer 3

I don't think we have any control over our dreams and it would be foolish to start an argument over something like that. Cheating to me is when a person makes a conscientious effort to be with someone other than their partner and he is not conscientious while asleep. The same rule applies to me as well. So my answer is NO I do not consider it cheating.

Answer 4

That's a tough one. I don't consider it to be "cheating" because there is obviously no physical contact or emotional connection between the two. However, I would be ticked and highly offended.

Answer 5

It's tough having so many Chicks dreaming about me! But I'm doing as much as possible to get into all your dreams!

Answer 6

i think alot of people have that dream. i once dreamed i was doing my sister in law- not the real one, some 'other' one- and i woke up and it was really my wife. she didn't seem to mind altho i didn't mention the sis thing. don't we wish we could control our dreams. i always told my wife if i didn't look i wouldn't be doing her any good anymore. she was happy with that and even showed me girls i needed to look at. cheating? no.

Answer 7

Nobody is even sure if dreams have meanings, so no I dont think that would be considered cheating, I mean we dont have much control of our subconscious minds,

Answer 8

Dreams, like erotic thoughts are private. But to rub to tell your partner about them is kinda disrespectful. Women like to believe that they are the "special" one.

Answer 9

each dream befell by ability of thinking or doing extra in many situations. It propose as quickly as we expect of something extra time we could dream of it. rely in this reason, make you dream of your ex better half just about customary.

Answer 10

I had asked this same question four times, and didn't receive an answer