2006-09-26 14:15:58 · 33 answers · asked by yanti b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confront your anxiety...be a woman who he'd be crazy to leave. Be spontaneous, fun, mysterious, give him space....in other words, instead of sitting in a corner waiting on him to leave (and therefore driving him away), be a person that keeps him around.
2006-09-26 14:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to fear but fear itself. If you continue with this fear and not get over it, it could have some very serious undertone in your marriage. I would suggest to seek counseling for this matter of insecurity that you harbor. Most of all you must understand if he does leave you it is NOT the end of the world, a lot of men would Cherish a woman who is so heavy reliant upon the like you seem to be.
2006-09-26 14:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apparently have the same lack of communication that most people that there marriages are in trouble have.
sit down and talk to the man and find out how he is feeling and what is going on and see if you can come to some conclusions on if you can fix what is wrong with your marriage.
No sense in sitting and worrying about something that may or may not happen talk to him.. he is your husband after all . corner him and get him to answer your questions. and satisfy your worrys.
maybe it is just you thinking there is something wrong and he don't even know that you are feeling this way..
talking is the only solution to your problem here.
2006-09-26 14:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. ask yourself why you have this fear. Are you afraid of being alone or afraid of him moving on with his life without you. Does he do things that make you feel this way? If he chooses to leave you, there is nothing you can really do about it, however worrying about it is not going to make your life pleasant. Take one day at a time. All I can say is.. enjoy today because thats all we really have. Dont worry so much about tomorrow because tomorrow may never come. So. in short, dont worry, be happy. Good luck!!
2006-09-26 14:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop living in fear. If both of you love one another and are committed then there is no reason to be afraid of the future. Live each day like it's your last, life is too short to worry about things like that and if you keep worrying about him leaving you, it will happen because you'll be so hungup on being scared to do something wrong that you won't act like the person he married.
2006-09-26 14:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that only thing I can think of is to leave him before he leaves you. Let him know that you have power and can do whatever you want.
I don't know your complete situation so I can't give you a full opinion. If you don't love him anymore leave him, it is better to put yourself in a relationship that makes you happy not a relationship that make you scared. It depends on how you feel about him.
2006-09-26 14:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear, not hate, is love's true opposite. Fear will have you think things, react and act in accordance with those fears, and thus add to the likelihood of it happening. Why?... because that is fear's way of proving itself right, so you will continue to rely upon its guidance, instead of love's.
What you need to do is think through each of those fears, and you will realize that they are most likely unjustified. It will then be easier for you to accept love's guidance, which will add to the likelihood of love enduring instead.
2006-09-26 14:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this out in the open with your man! You need to be on the same page and it's true...men just cannot read our minds!! Let him know your insecurity so that you may work on it together and hopefully that fear will go away.Good luck!
2006-09-26 14:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have not given enough information. I will do the best I can in answering you. Has he changed in anyway that makes you feel that way. Did you ask him straight out. If it's just a feeling then maybe it will pass. Perhaps your feeling sad and lonely inside and then start question things important in your life.
talk to him about it.
2006-09-26 15:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him or talk to him about it he is the one you should ask ...and while your at it spice up your relationship...have a night alone with him at least once a week..sometimes men get bored cause we tend to ignore their needs...they like a woman that can still show them love and be kinda sexy and playful in the bedroom...take it from me lol my husband and I are too close can be with out each other and we have been maried 27 years..altho it was a rough road first years but yea try getting closer to your husband it will work
2006-09-26 14:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋