well thers this problem going on in school which i hatewell my "friend" she was tryign to go out with my boy friend well today i wrote her a letter and she was talkign to my boy friend on purpose so i jsut went to the bathroom to check m y hair and i just went outside and she wanted to fight but i didnt want to fight and my boyfriend was ignorign me because of something she said and i cried because im so depressed what should i do?should i fight her or cuse her out of tell the teacher i jsut want to rip her head off so bad i know that sound bad but thats my boyfriend.
2006-09-26 14:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him to her. Obviously he doesn't care enough about you to stick up for you, or even to chase after you to make sure you're ok. They deserve each other, but you'll have the last laugh, when you meet a guy that is good to you, and she's dumped your ex for someone else's man.
2006-09-26 14:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your principal or a teacher what is going on and see if they can set up a time for the both of you to have some mediation, she's not a friend if she is going after your boyfriend but no guy is worth fighting over try to work out your differences and though you might not be on speaking terms or have a close relationship with her as before, Atleast you will not be resorting to any kind of violence and will actually be the bigger person trying to find a reasonable solution to this situation....
2006-09-26 21:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i know how hard it is...but you gotta be the bigger person. dont fight with her.she isnt even worth fighting if she is that big of a b****! tell a teacher if it gets serious and talk to your boyfriend. ask him what she was saying and tell him how depressed you feel. guys hate drama so dont cause anymore than there already is. pretty soon he will see that she is just a ***** and a drama queen. if he doesnt, you are too good for him anyway if he goes out with someone like her. good luck with all of this---i know this stuff is the worse but hang in there it will get better eventually!:)
2006-09-26 21:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are at school to learn, not to fight. Think about it, if your boyfriend is not talking to you, does he even care? Probably not. If I were you, I would dismiss the whole situation and move on to better things. And this girl is not a real friend to you anyway if she is trying to go out with your boyfriend. Good luck
2006-09-26 21:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was ignoring you instead of telling you what to do or helping you then break up with him. He obviously isnt right for you if he wants to ignore you. And your "friend" yeah she doesnt seem like a good person. I mean maybe there was or is something going on between them. Just things to think about, not assuming anything. But think about it before you do it. NO guy is worth fighting for.
2006-09-26 21:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!-- be the better person!- he nor she is worth it!-- I am not surfe ur exact age- but there are plenty of "GOOD MEN"- if he was ignoring u then he is showing how much he cares/loves u- and again u need to leave him and her alone. Fighting does not solve anything- just more heartache, and its not worth the hassle. I would not waste my breath on her nor him-- if the 2 want to be 2gether- then let them, that would be his lost!- good luck, and make the rite decision!
2006-09-26 21:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by re r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fight, that never solves anything. It could also get you in trouble. Tell the teacher if she still wants to fight you....good luck
2006-09-26 21:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really your friend she would not be doing that to you. so first try to talk to her,tell her how you feel. if that don't work get a new friend. good luck !
2006-09-26 21:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by jolly rancher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋