I admit, I tricked the man so I could get the child support. Now he's married again, and I want his wife to suffer. She came in and she basically just makes sure I get what I'm supposed to get. I used to call the man and tell him I want money, and he'd actually send it. Well, now I want her to think of him as previously owned so she can leave him, and move on. Why would she marry a man with a child? I cannot understand! He's not even rich, so it can't be the money!
I wonder how she feels now? I wonder if she's close to giving up...what do you guys think? I've been pretty good at making sure he doesnt want to come around or talk on the phone with the child, but what about her? How do I really push her buttons? I do not want him back, just the cash. Plus she's about 22, what does she know?! I want her to just completely turn away from him, and move on. I dont hate her or anything, but she's messing with the program. Any ideas? How should she feel? What does she feel?
2006-09-26 13:50:56 · 36 answers · asked by Deena F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He saw her once when she was 1, he hasnt seen her since. It's because of how I am. I know he must want to, his wife asked if she could visit, I said no, she doesnt even know him like that, except for chats on the phone.
2006-09-26 13:57:25 · update #1
I actually have a job. And my child is growing up fine, she knows I want what's best for her.
2006-09-27 01:02:15 · update #2
Stupid, selfish B I T C H. I hope the kid grows up to realize what kind of person you are and ends up living with her father. You're the reason why fathers don't agree with the child support laws.
2006-09-26 15:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by John4no17 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do.....dress up in your nicest clothes and get a nice baby sitter to watch your little one....then you get off your rear and get a dang job! There are so many men out there who would die to have their children with them for just a little while. Some have to pay so much in child support they can barely pay their own bills with their new family when they try to move on from people like you. I feel so bad for your 5 year old! you are using her as a pawn and a source to suck the money out of that poor man! Did you not understand that child support is suppose to go for the needs of the child?!! I hope you realize that you CAN be turned in for this....I would look into your laws before you put this sort of thing out for the world to see as it can be used against you. Believe me...if you don't stop this now your child is going to hate you for messing with her life like that....in this whole issue over money you have completely missed the most important thing...YOUR DAUGHTER! Karma is gonna bit you hard.
2006-09-26 14:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by wintersimjp 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know what? if he is giving you what you deserve in terms of money, then u should take it and shut the hell up... there are alot of single women out there that don't get a dime for their children.... and if you want more money get yourself a damn job, what are you handicaped?? cant you work instead of sponging off others.... and lastly he is allowed to have a girlfriend... you've already taken his child rights away, would you mind your own fuc*en business and make him have a life also... its not your job to try to find out why she is with him, WHY cuz she likes him that's why.... stop wasting your energy on trying to figure out why she loves him or if she is leaving him, instead put your energy on something useful, like your daughter maybe or start going to interviews....
2006-09-26 14:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD!!!! Your morale is so low!!! How could you do that to your child? What type of mother are you? What is going on in your sick, messed up head of yours? You should be thankful that he wants to be a part of your child's life and you should be thankful that his new wife/girlfriend wants something to do with her and pushing him to have a good relationship with the child. You probably need to give up your parental rights if you are going to be that way.
Oh and get your head out of your @ss and start thinking about the child. Not yourself.
2006-09-26 14:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Smiley Freckles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny you are 27 going on 15! You are a disgrace & should be ashamed of yourself. I hate when I get with a man who has a child with some crazy b*tch who cant let sh*t go & is too damn lazy to do sh*t for herself (such as one like yourself). Whats the piont in using him? You seem so proud that you tricked him, so basically you must be proud to be a wh*re. Youre just mad b/c shes making him realize what a gold diggin b*tch you are. So get off it & get a job, quit your whining, & be a real woman!
BTW some people (those with dignity & values) dont get with a man just b/c hes got money. thats not everything. But yet we already know how shallow you are so you must have no pride!
2006-09-26 13:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
How do you sleep at night??? Do you even know who your child's father really is? I'm gonna guess not. Leave the guy and his wife alone. You must be ranging with jealousy because he is soo happy without you and you can't handle another women getting all of the attention.
I have all sorts of other things I would just love to write about you, but I need to keep it clean for the children that are on here.
2006-09-26 13:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You are horribly wrong. This is no way to raise a child or treat another human being. Where is your self respect? Move on and let your personal feelings be put aside for the well being of your child.
2006-09-26 16:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU are a conniving B I T C H. U need to get off your *** and get a job. I bet you cant even find a new man.. nobody wants a ready-made family. Grow up and get a life. Please for the sake of all us keep your legs closed. You are a horrible horrible mother and when your daugther gets old enough to understand and know what you did shes gonna hate your guts.
2006-09-26 14:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are the kind of ***** that gives the rest of the decent women in the world a bad name. What is your major malfunction? Make your own money and let the man have a life. Honestly, you should probably consider giving your daughter up to someone who will raise her properly as well so she doesn't turn out as hateful and selfish as you are.
2006-09-26 13:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
GOD I WISH HE COULD SEE ALL THESE LETTERS UR WRITTING TO USE AS PROOF TO SHOW A JUDGE THAT UR ADMITTING THAT U ONLY PUT UP WITH UR DAUGHTER SO U CAN HAVE A MANS MONEY SO HE CAN GET CUSTODY OF HIS CHILD.. YOUR A GOLD DIGGING WHORE, YOUR A POOR EXCUSE OF A MOTHER AND A POOR EXCUSE OF A HUMAN BEING.. I HOPE HE GETS CUSTODY OF HER SO U NOT ONLY CANT PASS ON UR IDIOTIC WAY OF THINKING TO YOUR CHILD BUT SO HE DOESNT HAVE TO PAY U A DIME.. YOUR A WHORE AND U ADMITTED IT, U HAD SEX FOR MONEY.. UNFORTUNATELY UR USING UR CHILD AS A WAY TO CONTINUE THE CASH FLOW THAT IS JUST SAD AND I HOPE UR CHILD NEVER LEARNS THAT THE ONLY REASON HER MOM KEPT HER AROUND WAS FOR A MERE PAY CHECK.. UR PATHETIC.
2006-09-27 02:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋