A guy asked me to Homecoming, and he says we're going as friends in front of other people, but I know he likes me as more than friends because he walks me to my locker, etc. I like this other guy who already has a girlfriend, but said that if he didn't have one then he would have taken me to Homecoming. This guy is also really smart, and EXACTLY like me, and always makes me laugh. The first guy, however, isn't the brightest and is totally different then me.I think I like each of them for different qualities (the second guy more though). I know it's wrong to toy with the heart of the guy who asked me to Homecoming, but you can't control your heart too. What should I do?
2006-09-26 13:41:18 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go with the guy who asked you to go to homecoming....and go as friends, making sure he understands that. After spending the time together you will find out more about him and if there is more to like. As for the other guy, he is taken and I wouldn't mess with that. If he decided to take you to homecoming behind his girls back he wouldn't be trustworthy enough to start a relationship with. And if he left the girlfriend for you, whats to say that he wouldn't do the same to you later on down the line. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 13:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by wintersimjp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nonsense, you can absolutely control your own heart, and you need to soon or you'll end up hurting both of these guys, their girlfriends, and yourself all at the same time. Homecoming is not marriage, so go with the guy you already agreed to go with. The boy who already has a girlfriend is already happy to have a girlfriend- Do not waste any time on him. If you aren't all that excited about dating the first boy, then be careful not to let things go too far. Good luck, and have a great time at the dance!
2006-09-26 13:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go with the first guy, although i would go with the second guy if he didn't have a girlfriend already, but if he is still with that girl when homecomming comes, then go with the first guy.
2006-09-26 13:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by daniellelee10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is... follow you heart. i kno it sounds like it's from an old movie or something but it's true. I personally would go with the second guy, but would only date him when he doesn't have a girlfriend. But for you, right now, i would say just be friends with both of the guys while you wait for the second guy 2 be single.
2006-09-26 13:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cinderella108 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with the first guy, the one who asked you to homecoming. he's single unlike the other guy, and you don't want to have to deal with a girlfriend in the picture. you don't want to be the other girl. respect his relationship with his current gf and he'll see that in you. for now, just see where your relationship with the first guy goes.
2006-09-26 13:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he understands that you just want to be friends and nothing more. Go to homecoming with him and have fun. Stay away from someone who has a girlfriend. Nothing but trouble their.
2006-09-26 13:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by vindezeal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to that jack pearson! just go to the first guy and get to no him MORE and maybe u do have somethings in common! and yes, u don't just go to homecoming as friends. U always go as a DATE!!! du!! so if u really don't like the first guy, tell him im sorry , and slip some things in that mean"im sorry, but i don't want to go to homecoming with u!" and then ask the other guy if hill go woth u, and if she dosn't say yes, then he dosn't really like u!
2006-09-26 13:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I desire only me and my hubby. 3 in one mattress is a crowd, different than whilst that's between the cats. If compelled to choose for, i might choose for 2 adult males and one lady. i think of having yet another lady interior the mixture might only be bizarre (plus i'm getting jealous extremely unquestionably).
2016-10-01 09:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, so the first guy can prepare himself for the possibility of having to see you with the other guy. It's just cruel to tell hom and then make-out with the other guy...I had a girl do that to me...
2006-09-26 13:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Elminster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy who has a girl friend and know has a girl friend. Go with the guy who has no girl friend whether or not he likes you. Why do you make the matters so complicated?
2006-09-26 13:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by pundit005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋