ok there is this guy name ryan in my class and he likes me right. well this dude gets picked on and is kinda a nerd well anyways he had wrote me a note saying that he thinks im hot and he likes my eyes, well i dont wanna be mean but i told him that he can do better than me, cause i didnt know what else to say without being rude; well he wrote me back saying he loves me and that he really likes me,but i am a nice person and i hate to let anyone down. well he had got really mad and cried and cussed and just went off and stuff. see i felt bad and idk what to do. i dont want to go out with him because i feel srry 4 him but i kinda like him but idk can u tell me what to do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
2006-09-26 13:33:38 · 4 answers · asked by mercedes s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hun you can't judge a book by the cover BUT from they way you said he broke down I would definitly say he's a loser and you don't want someone like that in your life,just tell him that your schedule is way too busy to be having boyfriends right now and if that don't work tell him you have aids lol,ok that last one if your still in school that might get around;)
2006-09-26 13:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is not mature enough to have a G/F. Do not let him play on your feeling sorry for him. You need to get some back bone girl! Or people will walk on you! Tell him to stop it and that your not interested in dating him. At least not right now. Don't try to scare him off with "You can do better than me" act. That makes you weak and easier in his eyes. I will bet He has no respect for you now, but he will.
2006-09-26 20:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by jadamgrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in school, so tell him that you are not allowed to date, and need to concentrate on your studies. Tell him you can be his friend, if you want to be. Be sincere if you do, and you will both be richer for it.
I had a wonderful friend in high school, and he was our valedictorian. We helped each other a lot through a difficult time.
2006-09-26 20:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him or not??!! well if you do, then go out with him. If you don't then don't worry about it....you did the right thing!...learn to say 'no' when you have to. You won't hurt anyone....it would just make things more clear :)
2006-09-26 20:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by megh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋