I have been with my husband for 8 years and we are still in love can anyone give me any tips on how to keep the fire burning
2006-09-26 13:18:03 · 13 answers · asked by moccaebby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Respect and Trust are the most important factors to keep a marriage going. This is a basic concomitant to keeping the fire going.
The always hear what the other needs and cnstantly show appreciation by validating the other person. Make each other feel like they are number 1.
The romance stuff is easy, whereas the above is the challenge...G'Luck.
2006-09-26 13:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by meldorhan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can keep the line of communication clear, you will have no problem in keeping the home fire burning! Grow together, or you will out grow one another. Keep minds open and learn to read between the lines. The number one problem with couples is the breakdown of communication, and the lack of not giving the other one, 100 percent of your attention at the most crucial moments. We, at one point or another, always let our mates know what we like or don't like. That's not the problem, its the fact that one of us is not listening when the other one is telling us this.
2006-09-26 20:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one u havve to open up to each other and tell each other what u like and dont like that one or the other is doing. two go to a grown up store and buy some marital aids check out a vibe or even a game or some dice. try something new or act out your fantasies with each other ive been married 13 years and my hubby still doesnt know whats coming next if youve been married that long u apperently must be doing something right
2006-09-26 20:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try meeting each other at a bar and flirt with him.
Give him some of the lines that you use to use. Take him home but not to your own bed, go to a hotel instead. You can try dressing up and toys in the bedroom. If its real excitement that you are looking for, you could try swinging but that is not for everyone and you have to have a special bond with your mate to do that!
2006-09-26 20:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember to keep the romance in the relationship. go out often like you did when you were first dating or married. Congrats for a wonderful 8 years!
2006-09-26 20:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by MA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best tip I can give you is ALWAYS remember what attracted you to each other in the first place......NEVER lose sight of that....that's it (Happily married for 15 Years)
2006-09-26 20:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be creative. Think outside of the box as the saying goes.
2006-09-26 20:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by sexylips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to go on dates often. Pretend like you're starting from the beginning of your relationship again.
2006-09-26 20:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by complete_farmgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do somthing different with him get something sexy at victoria's secret he'll get fired up quick trust me ;) keep the love burnin'! you can do it i know you can!
2006-09-26 20:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by bluu_eyes57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes keep your love life exciting always
2006-09-26 20:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋