my friends & i r in a fight right now, b/c I got mad b/c they were making cruel racist jokes against black ppl & told them to stop & they wouldn'd,so I blew up and called them White B****es(I'm part black) And I ran away. 1 of them came pounding(literally) at my house door,but I didn't answer,she hurt me, and eventually she went away,should I take thm back or WHAT?
2006-09-26 13:06:12 · 11 answers · asked by It's killing time again..... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Should I still be their friend?
2006-09-26 13:10:25 · update #1
If they apologise then u should b friends again but only if they r nice people..make sure u tell them it was hurtful to u what they said.
2006-09-26 13:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm part black too. I would totally never speak to my friends again if they did that, cuz they know that i'm part black. wait, did they know? well still, i mean even if they didn't they have no right talking about black ppl like that. I wouldn't take my friends back even if they knew. were they doing that in front of you? cuz that's just cruel. all i can say is that i would never take my friends back after them talking like that about ppl that come from the same culture as me. I can't beleieve they did that to you. I'm really sorry :(
2006-09-26 16:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bl and know for a fact that we as bl ppl say mean things too but we laugh it off as if it won't hurt their feelings also like it would hurt us and i'm sure that it does hurt. If they apologize and were good friends then accept their apologies. But if it continues and their just playing you like a puppet, then don't be around them but remember that not all ppl are the same. So plz don't think that their all are like that.
2006-09-26 13:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLLL NO!!!!!! IT doesn't matter if your part black, ,full black or full white! It's totally wrong to be even saying racist comments, no matter what culture someone's from. If they were truly your friends, they wouldn't even be making those comments in the first place. So what you need to do is cut them off completely, and find yourself some friends who appreciate you for who you are, and not for your ethnicity.....remember: DUMP THEIR @$$e$!
2006-09-26 13:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by luscious_ladie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends wouldn't hurt your feelings like that. Remember, no matter what race you are, racism will always be an issue!
2006-09-26 13:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't answer your question just based on that. I have no idea why you were friends with them in the first place.
2006-09-26 13:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it pass. if you really are friends then this will just serve as one of those bumps. you were driven by emotion so don't punish yourself for being so. be proud of yourself. you were able to stand up for what you think is right. if they come back and they apologize sincerely, forgive them. good luck!
2006-09-26 13:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you didn't find the jokes appeasing, don't continue to be friends with people that are racist.
2006-09-26 13:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong, so calm down, if they are saying those jokes then they arent your friends.
2006-09-26 13:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool down- you did nothing wrong!
2006-09-26 13:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋