do you believe once a cheater always a cheater?

Answer 1

Anybody CAN change but the odds are if they have done it once they will do it again

Answer 2

If they've ever told you they loved you after they'd cheated, and before you find out then yes!

It's about whether you think they could deal with the guilt again, 'cos if they could then they're a no-hoper, they have no remorse and know you'll take them back if they did it again anyway, like you did last time!

If the fact they've hurt you so much that they would struggle to live without you (and I don't mean dependant on you and your cooking bills etc.), to the point where they're on their hands and knees crying their eyes out then there maybe hope.

...Remember to look for false emotion, you should know your partner.

...Though if you were seeing someone on the side who already had a partner then things get really complicated, and it depends on why they cheated with you and what's going on in their relationship with their current partner. Is their relationship already breaking down, and are they putting on a show for them.
If they are then I think once a cheater, always a cheater, because if they can bare face lie to someone who thinks they're in a loving relationship.....and sleep with them, then they could lie to you!

I have never cheated, I have come fairly close, and had plenty of oppurtunity but I've always asked myself "What's more important? My love for my girl and never wanting to hurt her, or my love of a bit of a rush and sex.
.....The latter doesn't even come close

Answer 3

That's such a tough question. I have to say no. I personally had a horrible lapse in judgement once and cheated with someone that was married. I would not do that again and I have been honest with myself about this and have felt very remorseful. Now that being said, if the person that you're referring to is NOT willing to admit cheating before was a HUGE mistake and feel remorse, then I would tend to think it might happen again.

Answer 4

Depend when. I mean when i was in school I always was. It was a game to me to see just how many girls i could date at the same time and no one find out about the other. But it really depends on the girl. I mean when I find a girl that i really like, even back then, that girl was all i wanted.. so no cheating. Just make sure you take care of all he needs, just like he should do for you, and everything should be good.

Answer 5

No, not always. Everyone is different, and some people yield to temptation easier than others, and some women are greater temptresses that others.
There are both ends of the spectrum; some men have to have sex every day, and it matters not who they have it with. They are addicts. Others may fall to temptation once in their life, and reform immediately.
Many men are purely monogamous throughout their marriage.
You can't fairly make this generalization.

Answer 6

No because people can change and learn from there mistakes iam not saying every cheater learns and stops but i belive some can

Answer 7

Yes

Answer 8

Yes, once a cheater gets away with cheating...they have no reason to stop doing it because they have no conscience about it.
Nothing lost.

Answer 9

I've always said that but some people might have done it when they were young "sewing their wild oats" but then settle down with the right one.Who knows, but if they cheat on me once they ain't getting a second chance!!!

Answer 10

I don't believe that because people can change and if they really know what they did was wrong and want to stop it from ever happening again. I have faith in them. So no i don't agree with that statement.