I have several questions and would seriously like to hear from other men who have done the same thing.
2006-09-26 12:39:25 · 15 answers · asked by horsemanship 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why cant you find a woman here?
2006-09-26 12:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by lori b 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what you hope to get out of this.
A mail order bride is only after (a) your money and (b) citizenship. Once she gets the citizenship, she is quite likely to leave you flat, unless you are rich enough that the money alone will keep her with you.
Of course you may be happy to take what you can get while it's going, and if that's the case then go for it. But don't fool yourself that any of these women have ANY other motive than what I've written above.
If you're not having any luck with online dating in your own state/country, then have a good long look at yourself and try to understand what's wrong with your approach or why women aren't going for you.
2006-09-26 20:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Question #1!....What's wrong with the women in your neighborhood?
Question #2!....If you have money enough for a mail-order bride why aren't you out pimpin' in your own hood?
Question #3!....Don't you realize that this is the WORST and most expensive blind date you could ever commit to?
Also....I hope you don't have unrealistic fantasies of a hottie jumpin' up out of a box at your doorstep!
Even in poor countries a hot chick can find a rich guy! Any gal that puts herself for sale on a website (and is willing to fly or boat intercontenental!) has probably been passed over by the guys in her homeland!
2006-09-26 19:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Danny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I know about it is that it is quite expensive, so if you are going to do it, be prepared to spend alot of money. Money for using the Mail Order Bride Service, THEN money to have her shipped over here, not to mention probably compensation to her parents.... some countries do do that. I am telling you by the time she gets here,you'll be living in the poor house. THEN, how do you know she is going to stay? How do you know that you are going to be attracted to her? Your best bet, if you are looking for a wife, is to go on single sites like mate1.com where low and behold its FREE and try there first... and besides, why cut out the dating part? Well good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2006-09-26 19:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tequila_Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, well let me start here! why the hell are u trying to find a bride over the internet? how do u know youll like her, how do you know shell like you? how do u know shes not a tansexual waiting for some dude like you to come find it? when u get married you are supposed to marry someone you love and care for not someone you found over the internet, wow im out of breath until next time!
the-debineser
2006-09-26 19:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by the-debineser 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is a mail order bride what you really want? A great many women involved in such schemes are exploited or coerced into joining...are you really sure you want to associate yourself with such a practice?
2006-09-26 19:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jim 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Watch "Birthday Girl" with Nicole Kidman & Ben Chaplin. (2001) Very informative.
2006-09-26 19:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you can't marry someone you don' t love....get out there and date.....there is someone out there for you....Ordering a bride thru the mail is doomed!!! Good Luck!
2006-09-26 19:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I really can't say much cause I'mj not a man but all you need to do is be yourself ok sweetie holla at me
2006-09-26 19:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mz. New Orleans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look under keyword
desperate
plenty of lonely women in the usa oh thats right they have a brain and opinion so you wouldnt want them
2006-09-26 19:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've never been that close to giving up dating women in this country, sorry.
2006-09-26 19:41:09 · answer #11 · answered by live2ride 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋