My best friend is pregnant and the father is my ex straight drug addict sick illegal russian boyfriend...?
who's gonna be deported next Thursday...she asked me to get a lawyer for him, but I said no, she said she's gonna kill herself and the baby if he's deported and that I'm a sucking friend...what to do? pls, refer to my previous questions about my ex straight drug addict illegal sick russian boyfriend for the whole story...It seems I just can't get outta it!
2006-09-26 12:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that you need to get a ticket to some where far away... Get on a plane... Let all of this drama pass by and let other people take care of there bull $hit. The fact that you are sleeping with you best friends boyfriend is horrible.... This relationship has been brought on by bad decision, bad decision, bad decision... You are not god and can not save the world. These people need to get a lawyer for them selves. Friends don't require that much from friends.....
2006-09-26 12:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you want this guy to be a father? Your friend may hate you for a while, but that's a small price to pay in my opinion. She's hardly likely to kill herself and the baby if she loves this guy so use that point to get away from the sucide threats. In fact you should tell her that her talking about it like that upsets you and that she's a sucky friend for making you feel so bad. If you really think its going to get ugly then get some help from more of your friends or family. But the drug addick sick illegal russian ex-boyfriend has got to go.
2006-09-26 19:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Crap...Don't get involved anymore than you already are in his drug thing. The law will through you in jail for involvement of any kind. Just be a friend to her and tell her you love her, but you can't help in that way. You will but putting your money on the line as well and for what, a drug dealer, no. This might go on for some time. Not a good idea. But watch her, she could be trying to trap you in her suicide threat. But if not, you can always call someone who can keep her from hurting herself.
2006-09-26 19:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her this question, and the previous one about the ex straight etc etc. boyfriend. Ask her if she gets it. If not, tell her to do whatever she needs to do, but if she hurts herself and/or her baby she's a useless piece of crap loser and deserves what she gets.
2006-09-26 19:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is responsible for their own choices. Yor friend is pregnant and afraid, so she's lashing out, but that doesn't make you to blame.
2006-09-26 19:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe bible says (ok! don't worry, won't get "Religious" on ya!!!)
that life itself matters more than clothes, what we will eat, what we will do, what will happen. Give all ur cares 2 god. He'll take care of it if ya let 'im!
Let god do da wrap!
2006-09-26 19:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by jSON 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is just trying to get you to do what she wants, why don't she get a lawyer why does it need to be you, tell her to get a lawyer she is the one that needs one
2006-09-26 19:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a nurse have your friend involuntarily committed.
2006-09-26 19:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bloody illegals
2006-09-26 19:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by jason s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋