Okay My boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me now that i have moved. My dad got realii pissed off when i talked about him last nigh. He only got mad cuz hes 17 and im 13. And if u have a problem with it too then kiss my ***!!! Anyway i miss him so much and i cant talk to him or see him or even write him. Dad is mad because me and him got a little... (well you no). And i realy want to at least say hi and i might be preagnate. But i cant talk to him no way no how. I dont have his # addresse or any of dat shyt. So...WHAT DO I DO???
2006-09-26 11:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by SEXY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
listen to your dad, go to a doctor, and accept the consequences of your behavior. it's real life.
2006-09-26 11:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about someone he knows who at least has his number if not then I don't know because if that suppose to be your boyfriend you should have his number and if you are pregnant then you really need to get in-touch with him and lets be real hes 17 and you are 13 he's probably have someone Else I know it may sounds mad but that's life and if you are 13 then you shouldn't be having sex you are still a baby and maybe that's what that 17 year old want sex and you not using protecting not good if I was your dad I would be mad 2 but I'm not just giving you advice
But I hope you are not because you are to young
Good Luck
2006-09-26 18:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Scooby_doo06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father has every right to be concerned that someone had sex with and possibly impregnanted his under-age daughter (even if your bf is not yet 18, it is still legally rape because you are not of age yet).
First of all, find out if you are pregnant. Go to the local health clinic, buy a pregnancy test at the drugstore, talk to your school nurse or doctor. If you're brave enough, talk to your dad (or female family member if you have one).
If you are pregnant, I would recommend getting an abortion as soon as possible - it is physically dangerous for you to give birth at this age, and would be emotionally and mentally impossible for you to deal with properly. (If you are morally opposed to abortion, there are many other choices you can explore.)
Next, go to your doctor/school nurse/health clinic and get checked for STDs. If you're possibly pregnant you've definitely been exposed, and could have AIDS, herpes, syphillis, or any number of STDs without knowing it. It is very important for your own health and safety that you find out immediately.
Once you've made sure about your health, then you can worry about your heart. If you are pregnant or have any STD, your bf has a right to know and you should call him and tell him. Your father (or female family member) will need to know as well, so they can help with your health needs.
I hope that you have been neither impregnated or infected - this is much more serious than missing a boy who, I'm sorry to say, is probably not faithful to you. Please take care of yourself!!
2006-09-26 18:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 years old. Any 17 year old that wants to be with you only wants you for sex, which he is obviously getting. In one more year he can go to jail for even being with you. Go to a doctor and pray to god that you are not pregnant. Don't waste your life on a guy... girl, there are so many important things out there. Do you really want to be trailer trash, or living on the street? Cuz that is what is going to happen if you don't keep those legs closed!
2006-09-26 18:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by soulmatedp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, how long ago have your even started getting your period?...Your just a child. You may feel like a teenager, but just 3 yrs ago you just 10 yrs old. How much growing up did you think you did in 3 yrs. Most people dont even get married until there out of hight school. Hell your not even there yet. Get real and go back to playing with dolls. Your dad has a right to be pissed. A boy who is just months shy of being able to go to jail for what he's done has YOU convinced what you did is right. He RAPED you and your so young you dont even realize it. But YOU think your in love......GET REAL CHILD!!!!!!
2006-09-26 18:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by mcdermond3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up girl you are 13 and he is 17.. I would not let my daughter date or see him either...and you got a little......look you cant even talk like an adult..act your age and hope your not preggie. You arent able to deal with it.
Dont tell your dad he can kiss your *** he is looking out for you and when you get older you will learn that. Now shut up and be a good girl.
The boy needs a boot in his butt for even having sex with you. he is too darn old
2006-09-26 18:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by my_hart2hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Go to a health clinic and find out for sure whether you are pregnant or not.
2) If you are, tell your Dad, take sh**** he'll dish out, and then deal with it
3) I'm not surprised if your Dad is po'ed at you if you were having sex with this guy (or any guy for that matter)
So, I'm not mad at you for liking this guy but I think you have an opportunity for a new beginning for your life. Guys will come and go - each one is a learning experience - move on - keep learning.
-Good Luck!
2006-09-26 18:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to make those decisions in your life right at the moment. Wait until you are a little older to delve into a relationship or even consider a sex life much less children. You are still a child!
2006-09-26 18:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by tendertigress2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, aren't you a piece of work. You think you might be pregnant? Your obviously way to young to be having sex, and if I was your dad, I'd drive the three hours and kick your boyfriend's *** to h-ell and back. And make you wear a chastity belt until your 18.
2006-09-26 18:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.......you're how old? 13 You my dear are a child. I know it's hard to hear. And you're saying "i'm not a child (whine, whine) I'm 13. You are a child. You're father is right and was right for moving you far away. If you are preggo, i feel very sorry for you and your X. Yes, X. It's over. I'm sad for you.
2006-09-26 18:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by rere 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋