I'm in 9th and she's in 10th.... we only have one class together, and that ends after Christmas, but I'm afraid that it will be too awkward to talk to her again if she says no..... also I don't know any of her friends, so how can I know if she has a bf? But, more importantly, do you think she'll say yes to a younger, shorter guy? (Please be honest :)
2006-09-26 11:20:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm going to let the cat out of the bag here, dude. (I wish someone did this for me when I was your age.) The chances of you meeting the love of your life in 9th grade is less likely than waking up on the moon. No offense, but it's sorta true.
SO, on that note, I say go for it! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE! You lose if you DON'T do it. You're in 9th grade for cryin' out loud; go have some fun, get crazy, be adventurous and ask 'em ALL out!
Seriously, dude, you MUST ask her out. 90% of us older guys will tell you that we never asked out the girl that we should have because we were chicken s*** little pansies when we were you age.
Quit reading and go ask her out. (Just shower first and put on some decent clothes, and for god's sake, no cologne.)
2006-09-26 11:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Trixie D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it why not what have you got to loose? worst case senario she says no but like you said the one class you have together ends at christmas and the best case is that she says yes why live with regret? go for it i was called Lanky at school i have been 5"3 since i was 12 i dated a guy who was 3 "2 that was because i liked him loads and some years on i am now the shortest person i know and they are all towering over me height and age in most cases is not an issue stop making excuses and ask her out
2006-09-26 18:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dad was 2 1/2 inches shorter than my Mom. It NEVER bothered him. She wore heels at their wedding in 1963. I think that you should ask her if it's what your heart is telling you to do. The worst she can do is say no...and frankly all that means is that she has a hang-up over your height and it's not much of a loss if you ask me.
You might think of taking her a longstemmed rose...yellow means friendship and it might break the ice.
2006-09-26 18:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't want to date a younger
or shorter guy than me. But everyone is
different so I say give it a shot, if not you will
always wonder if she would have said yes.
2006-09-26 18:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. You never know unless you ask. The worst she can do is say no. It feels like your heart gets ripped out but take it from personal experience... The feeling is temporary.
2006-09-26 18:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? My first date (many, many years ago), was with a taller, older girl. We had a great time and remained friends for years. Best of luck. Go into it with confidence (not arrogance) and she should like you for who you are.
2006-09-26 18:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then it shouldn't matter. Make better friends with her, tell her you like her face to face (girls hate it when it's through friends, mail, phone call) and ask her how she feels. Ask her if she would like to go out and catch a flick sometime as buddies and go from there.
2006-09-26 18:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by SocalSocialButterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, go for it!
Most people only regret the lost opportunites, not the times the tried for their goals.
If she says yes, then great!
If she says no, accept it, and still be her friend.
2006-09-26 18:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter if she is older and taller? a girl is a girl. ask her out. she just might say yes. besides....you haven't reached your growth spurt yet. you may get taller than her
2006-09-26 18:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by coolchic011469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is OK to ask.
You may not get he answer you wish for but that should not deter you. If she has a bf then OK you should withdraw but if you don't ask you don't get.
2006-09-26 18:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋