I just learned Sunday that a good friend of mine was killed in a car wreck. She never did a bad thing to anyone... why would god do this to her? Why do these things happen to people? I don't understand it...
2006-09-26 11:14:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately, it seems that way. Let me offer my condolences. I know people that have been taken from me also that were good people. Kind, generous, loving. Try to keep their memory alive and not be bitter and question life's twists and turns, we will never figure it out...Good Luck
2006-09-26 11:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. I've been throught the same exact thing a couple times too many. To say god did this is absolutely out of the question though. All things happen for a reason.....That's what we like to think-maybe cause it makes it easier to cope. God didn't create cars...god doesn't make people drive em. With all the bad things there is a tiny fraction of good with it. I'm sorry you feel this way about it....and if you happen to find out why these things happen to people-please tell me.....I'd like to know myself. Also remember that there are still people around you that ARE here... don't waste anytime- you see how quickly and horribly these things happen. I wish you the best in these times.
2006-09-26 18:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by katie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that and I can't explain to you why good people seem to be victim to some sort of horrible ordel. That is part of life and what hurts you only makes you stronger. I understand what your going through My next door neighbor got killed by a drunk driver and now his family has to live everyday with that loss. I also believe that god has a plan for all of us and it seems that god decided to choose your good friend unfortunately. My thought and prayers go out to you. Take care of yourself and keep your good friends and family around you for support because no matter what happens they will always be there for you.
2006-09-26 18:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Swimming cutie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quick to blame God when something bad happens, but easily forget to thank him when blessings come my way. I don't believe God is to blame. But it isn't fair none the less. I've know complete scumbags in my life. They seem to get all the breaks.
Money coming from unexpected places, homes, nice cars and living it up. I have also know beautiful people that have died.
Death feels so senseless most of the time. We all go through phases. Shock, disbelief, denial, anger than acceptance. We feel we need to direct our anger someplace. Time does heal all wounds. Remind me of this if God forbid I lose someone I am close to again.
2006-09-26 18:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Balou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really cant ask this question because there is no true answer. Everything happens for a reason. One day you will understand why. For every life taken a new life is born. Think of it this way, even though your friends life was cut short, (deeply sorry for that) she was able to allow a new life to begin. And now your friend is a angel that will look after you and keep you safe.
2006-09-26 18:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God didn't do it! We all live in this world of good and bad! Things do happen! We all have choice's!
Please keep in mind that if God controlled everything, there would be no freedom of choice! We would all be carbon copies or puppet like!
He made us the world as our home, he set it up so everything would be just fine. And then he gave us all freedom of choice! What we do with it is up to us! And we have! Not all good for sure!
God wanted us to live for ever! Satan and Eve changed that!
We all now must die! When, Where, How, we don't know!
Keep your faith in God, don"t let Satan win with you!
2006-09-26 18:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does not make those decisions. God gives us the free will to do what we want in this world. Good things happen and bad things happen - God is not micro-managing our lives - we are.
Just take care of Nicole and know that life is fragile and that we need to enjoy every day of our life.
2006-09-26 18:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad things happen to everybody. It just sucks a lot more when they don't deserve it. Call it God's ineffable will, or fate, or random chance, it doesn't change the fact that the world is unfair and unbalanced. My condolences.
2006-09-26 18:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, God doesn't do anything to people. People do things to people. Now, about your friend, I believe things happen for a reason. And last, people are designed to born, live, and die. People are born different ways, live in different ways, and die in different ways.
2006-09-26 18:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around there are a lot of good people alive.Your a good person aren't you?Sometimes it looks like nothing ever happens to bad people,but it can.Everyday they have to suffer inside,with how bad,they treat people around them.
2006-09-26 18:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋