I am in a relationship with a female and she is younger than i am by six years. I have two children from a previouse marrage. she is very involved with what we call now our children. but befor we got married she was very affectionate and sympathic and loving and wanted to spend all the time in the word with me but now 5 days shy of our 6 month unity anniversary she does not want to be around me and want to go out with her friends and does nothing with the family anymore and i belive she thinks i am fat and lazy and not attractive and i dont know what to do I love her very much please help me keep her in my life tell me what to do.
2006-09-26 10:55:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would find a time to ask her when there are no distractions.
When you ask, try not to accuse...it will put her on the defense.
You need to ask her if she still wants to stay as your lover and partner. Good luck, and by the way...
Take care of yourself FOR yourself...no matter what happens, do not neglect your physical well being (not just appearance but the whole package)
2006-09-26 11:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Robin F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Talk to HER, not us.
2. Lose weight, stop being lazy, stop being whatever it is that is unattractive to her.
3. Stop using new age phrases like 'in a unity with'.
2006-09-26 17:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hook her up with a man or just leave her alone; either way quit ruining both of your lives. Poor kids have to explain the unity to their shrink. Way to go mom!
2006-09-26 18:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Grown Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her....maybe she's having a midlife crisis, so to speak. You have to try to understand where she's coming from before you make opinions about her thoughts. It's not fair
2006-09-26 17:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by rere 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jazz things up a little, go for a night on the town, and try gymnastics, just trust me on the gymnastics, o.k. this is what you need to do to save your marriage
2006-09-26 18:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
start exercising and start treating her like you did when you first met, and quit being so lazy
2006-09-26 17:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Handcuffs. 'Nuff said.
2006-09-26 18:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chucky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not sure, if I knew, I would tell you.
no clue, sorry
2006-09-26 17:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋