Is it really hard to give the baby to the parents?
Is it hard not to bond with the baby ?
2006-09-26 10:49:48 · 6 answers · asked by ♣ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am not a surrogate, but I plan to be one day. I have a child of my own, she is 3. But I don't think it would be difficult at all as long as you totally go into it knowing that THIS IS NOT YOUR BABY, and IT NEVER WILL BE. You have no rights in keeping it, so don't even let your thoughts go there. Surrogates have to usually go though quite a bit of testing, and in some cases psychological council to make sure they are fit for this task. I don't know which end you are on - the surrogate, or the birth parents- but either way, you should know that there is a lot done in the process to ensure that everyone is comfortable with the arrangement.
2006-09-26 11:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by feline_de_bourges 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a surrogate...but I have had 3 kids and I would really think it would be hard to give the baby up...yes you do bond with that baby while you carry it for 9 months
2006-09-26 10:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by April B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes It Is. How Would You Feel If You Carried A Baby For 9 Months. And When You Had The Baby You Had To Give It Up.
2006-09-26 11:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a surrogate, but when I was having trouble conceiving, my sister-in-law (brother's wife) offered to be a surrogate for me. I thought that was the most selfless, kindhearted gift that anyone could ever offer. I cried when she brought it up. She has 3 beautiful children of her own and I will love her for even the thought wanting to give that to me.
2006-09-26 12:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though i recpect those women incredibly I know I could not do it. I am two weeks away from having my first child and I already know her. I feel her alll the time and could never ever imagine giving her to someone else the bond I have with her already is absolutly incredible
2006-09-26 10:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two different types of surrogacy. Gestational(your egg and another males sperm) and Traditional(another females egg and another males sperm). I am doing traditional, meaning this child has absolutely no genetic connection to me, and I am simple baby sitting him and baking him in my over I until he is ready to be with his real mother and father. Surrogacy involves a lot more work than people realize including a ton of research.
2015-12-14 06:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Joan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋