I RAN INTO AN EX THAT HAD BROKE MY HEART IN PAST, WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AND PROMISED THE WORLD TO ME THEN HE STARTED MESSING WITH DRUGS AND WALKED AWAY HE CLAIMS HE'S CLEAN BUT NOW HE TREATS ME LIKE HE NEVER LOVED ME AND WHEN HE SEES I MIGHT MOVE ON HE DROPS LIL SIGNALS TO GIVE ME HOPE HE IS HOT ONE MIN AND COLD THE NEXT.......... DO I JUST GIVE UP OR IS THE RIGHT THING TO WAIT IT OUT N C IF HE CHANGES OR REALIZES WHAT HE IS DOIN TO US.... HE USE TO BE MY BEST FRIEND......
2006-09-26 10:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by BROKEN SOUL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unless you want to go down with him, forget you ever knew him!
2006-09-26 10:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first he is on drugs...Ex, is an ex right? Why did you split the first time? Remember this reason. You said it best He use to be your best friend. He must like him self first, right. Going the drug way isn't one of them. You, will be hurt if you remain in this relationship. Some relationships are toxic and this looks like it is, if this continues. I, do feel for you but what I have read he isn't into you but doesn't want to see you hurt. Can't have it both way's I say. Good Luck to you. Hope that you have a wonderful weekend!
2006-09-26 18:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs are bad and I have a friend in a similar situation. I think you should drop him and then maybe once he sees that he has lost you, he will realize what the drugs are doing to his life. You'll be doing the both of you a favor by breaking up. If he really loves you, he'll take steps to clean himself up and if he does, be there for him. If not, its time to move on.
2006-09-26 17:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Answerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u should give up on the romance love part, but still be his friend. if he is on drugs he needs help. once u have done all u can and he is not cooperating, move on. you cannot risk having this type of stress in your life for a person that doesnt love you seriously and permanently in the first place, or takes u for granted. love is not hard. its very simple...you do or u dont. if he walks away you will suffer from trying to get him back. he needs a taste of his own medicine. walk away and dont look back. if he wants help, and a good friend....then HE will know what to do.
2006-09-26 17:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a relationship that is not only destructive to you, but apparently for him an encouragement to continue in his old ways. Best to walk away from him now, at least for the time being. Someone once said "Let there be spaces in your togetherness.". What you need now is a breathing space for yourself in that togetherness, and a space for him to be honest with himself and decide what he really wants. It sounds from his behavior like he is being more loyal to his old habits than to you, and you deserve better than that. Hope this helps.
2006-09-26 17:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Alex T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r living in the past. he left once... comes back... starts using drugs.. walks again.. claims he is clean.. but treats you bad.. need you say more. stop this madness and get rid of this guy once and for all. there is no hope... common sense dictates you get out of this..fast
2006-09-26 17:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go hun, the drugs have him now..if you can, get him into rehab, untill then there isnt much you can do..sounds like he hasnet got his sh*t together, so id move on if i were you. He is just gonna break your heart again..
2006-09-26 17:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother was in the same situation n she decided to stay with the love of her life and now my dad is serving life in prison n shes 45 has been with him since she was 18
that will be your life later
2006-09-26 17:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by tracywendy2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never walk away just love this is my advice for it all and I tell you we never why things are as they are! There just may be a blessing coming. One that was never expected!
2006-09-26 17:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time waiting for him to prove he's changed. Let him prove it without you in his life. If he really loves you, then once he's proven he's clean, he'll be back for you. Otherwise, he's just looking for a crutch.
2006-09-26 17:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that since you already gave him a second chance, that you should go on. Life has more out there for you and you should go somewhere else.
2006-09-26 17:53:24 · answer #11 · answered by lpdecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋