There is a kid who is in my grade, and is spreading really bad rumors about me to everyone. I know some secrets about the person, what should i do to get revenge on the person?
2006-09-26 10:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by codecrypter 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
number one, don't bring yourself down to their level. keep their secrets to yourself. i know it's tempting but it's better that way, trust me. as for how to deal with them, either ignor them or "kill them with kindness". believe it or not if they know they can't get to you they will eventually move on to a different target. as for the rumors all you can do is tell people who ask you about them the truth and that will help to calm them, but don't go around preaching about how the rumors aren't true because that will just keep the rumor fire burning.
2006-09-26 11:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will poison you more than hurt the other person. If you don't like what that person is, why would you consider becoming the same. If anyone asks you about the rumor, you could say, "Consider the source." Otherwise, get on with your life. The rumors will seem smaller and smaller the further you move away from thinking about them. And vice versa.
2006-09-26 18:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Revenge is the worst act that you could possibly take at this time. You are mad at them, right now, for spreading rumors. You think that they are being rude and unfair...what will that make you if you do the same act?
Please don't act like they do. Report it to the principal if it happens in school, but not to other people. You will be glad about this later on. Keep the peace.
2006-09-26 17:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell everyone his secrets and spread rumors about him
2006-09-26 17:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by ducky29904 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of doing exactly the same thing that you hate about the kids, why don't you confront that person? perhap, at the most, you can threaten that if he/she does not stop, you let him/ her know something sensitive about that person.
Such people actually hate confrontation. They will most probably stop.
But don't stoop as low as that person!
2006-09-26 17:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by estee06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine your growth, if you resisted, and simply prayed that you became stronger in your personal life and left the rest up to Heaven....
2006-09-26 18:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by IKnowAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this kid that payback is a b-tch, and that is exactly what's gonna happen if you hear anything else
2006-09-26 18:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by MARY L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋