well i was at school and i have all of these guy friends. so im walking out the bulding and this guy comes up to me and goes." go hug your boyfriend!" so i started to blush and thought of an exuse to get out of there! but these guy took my arm and pushed mt to my boyfriend and i gave him a hug.. when i was getting told to me my friends!
so then i get on aim and he gets on and i start talking to him and he said hi then like three more things and gets off! i don't know what to do should i ask him or do something ealse?
i would really like it you could help me!
2006-09-26 10:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by mere mere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, if you have a boyfriend, you should not have "lots of guy firends". Guys are the most jealous creatures on the planet, and I can GUARANTEE you that seeing you with the other guys around drives him nuts!! None of us will admit it, but it does!!
If these "guy friends" were the ones pushing you on him, there is a couple of issues; first of all, they are touching you--bad. Second of all they are comfortable enough with you to touch you right in front of your boyfriend, which means there must have been some previous flirting to know that this flirting was OK--bad. Third of all, any guy touching your girlfriend is, well, bad. Fourth of all, if you and your man were in the same area, then why were you with "friends" instead of him? Fifth of all, how would you like it if you were at school, and seen a bunch of his "girl friends" pushing him and touching him and laughing and stuff; you wouldn't see this as firting and get jealous?
When a guy is with someone, we don't want that someone being touched by other guys. We don't want that someone touching other guys. We do not want to see that someone flirting with other guys, dancing with other guys, laughing with other guys, even walking with other guys!!
If you want to keep this guy, you are going to need to show him that HE is the ONLY guy that you are worried about. Don't you want him to make you feel like you are the only girl he cares about? If you are sitting there watching a bunch of girls push him and other flirty stuff when he should be sitting next to you, wouldn't you be upset??
Send him a message apologizing and telling him that he is the only guy in that whole damn school that you would even consider datingm and that if he wants you to stop talking to all of them, you will. The great thing about this is that he would NEVER tell you to stop hanging out with them (none of us would at that age), but he gets to feel like he gave you permission to hang out with these guys, which will make it alot less stressful on both of you!
2006-09-26 10:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be a bad thing for you to hug him? Are you in elementary school? Boyfriends and girlfriends hug. If this is a problem for him (or for you... why would your friends HAVE to force you to hug him?) get a new boyfriend! Good grief.
2006-09-26 17:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hug him every chance you get. I can't understand what you're trying to say exactly. You should probably talk to him about it (whatever it was that happened). And then hug him again.
2006-09-26 17:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your assuming that he was mad because he left aim after not saying much never assume things , some of your question i cannot understand .....
2006-09-26 17:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first...grow up. If he is mad he will get over it...or not.....who cares. It is a stupid reason for him to get mad (if that is really all there is to it). So why waste your time?
2006-09-26 17:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't get why he'd be mad at you for a hug. i'm confused
2006-09-26 17:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should ask him whats wrong with him
2006-09-26 17:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋