I like a boy in school but he's got a girlfriend. He talks to me in class alot, and when i forget to do my homework he asks me if i want to copy his. And when we have to work with partners in school he wants to be my partner all the time. o and he was also the first person to talk me in my class. plzzzzz help me what should i do?
2006-09-26 10:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It does sound like he likes you, but please keep this in mind: BOYS PLAY GAMES TO GET WHAT THEY WANT!
Now, it does sound like he's doing things to lead you to believe that he is interested in you. He does have a girlfriend though. One thing I would ask him to see how serious he is about you and his girlfriend is, "so, how's ________ doing?" You look nice because it seems like you care about his friends. And it gives him the opportunity to say things like, "she's doing great! she just made cheerleading" (which would subconciously say "I really like her") or, "God, she's getting on my nerves. What a *****" (which subconciously says "I hate her, that's why I'm flirting with you)
Either way it goes, be his friend, but steer clear of any romantic crap. The last thing you want to do it p!ss of a girlfriend. You don't want an underground newspaper passed around about you, your car keyed, or your locker defaced with "s!ut" written in Sharpie on the front of it. Not until he has broken up with her and you hear the rumors of relationship-past flying around. We know these rumors..... he's got a small d!ck, she was a s!ut, et. Then you are free to romantically presue him publicly.
Also, if you get the vibe that he likes you, ask him to meet up with you to do homework.... you know, since you always "forget" to do yours..... at McDonald's or at your house. It'll be like a trial date because you aren't in school.
Good luck! Hope he really likes you!
2006-09-26 10:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 23:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why is this question under pregnancy? first of all he has a GIRLFRIEND leave him alone if he really like you more then a friend then i'm sure he will let you know but then again he just might only like you as a really good friend some people just can't tell other people their feelings though but anyways don't mess things up between him and his girlfriend cause she just might kick your *** but they might breakup who knows nobody stays together with one person to long before they are dumped and with somebody new just give it time
2006-09-26 17:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by CountryGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful with this because what if he did ditch his old girlfriend to be with you ok, then a few months go by and then what if he does the same thing to you and goes for another girl. He might be hitting on you but he might also be a player so you really have to be careful about these things, take it slow and steady
2006-09-26 17:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Fredrick D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like u as a friend.. but if he was interested in you, you would have definately known.. Ethically, he has a girlfriend, so you should leave him alone.
2006-09-26 17:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by FirstTime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi might like you, but he's not sure if you like him. and because of that he doesn't wanna break up with his girlfriend.
so you should talk about his girlfriend. find out if he is really interested in her. and if it sounds like things are goin down hill. than go for it.
2006-09-26 17:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone as he has a girlfriend. If he wants to leave her and then come to you, fine, but for now, leave him alone romantically. You could still be friends with him though.
2006-09-26 17:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Island_Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is pretty obivous that he likes you, with all the stuff you said that he does for you, yea he likes you. but if he has a girlfriend and if he's caught likeing to you, then why the hell not, keep getting close to him. and see what happens then. **** he might even dump her for you.
2006-09-26 17:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by triplet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the way you are, don't do anything different , he will eventually find a way to be with you if it's meant to be.
2006-09-26 17:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by chunkydunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is using you for answers?
2006-09-26 17:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋