We've been friends for awhile and 1 time almost more.....but we havent talked in awhile and now we dont know what to say to eachother....help plz?
2006-09-26 10:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jodie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, if you're nervous, just remember he probably is too!
Just talk about random things like the weather or local happenings. Think of something to talk about that you both know a lot about so the conversation keeps flowing instead of stop and go questions.
2006-09-26 10:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by shanndawhit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, start with the present, last weeks game, an upcoming event, a movie you liked, current events, what he likes to do, etc.
As it gets more comfortable then the conversation will flow into the past, things you've done, funny stories etc. and then the final progression is onto the future. that is where the most uncertainty and vulnerability lies - good luck!
2006-09-26 10:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by maazungo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have like the exact same problem, I never knew what to say around this guy I liked or actually to anyone I didn't know well. Try saying things like have you seen any good movies latley? or something I don't know I wish I could help but I have the same problem.
2006-09-26 10:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just make fun of him or make him laugh. actually i liked this guy from my school and hes sometimes shy and sometimes not so shy...and so it was extra hard to talk to him. but i was just persistent and ended up finding out that he shares a class with someone i knew, so i talked with his friend during lunch alot and got him to ask matt if he liked me and i found out he did!
so seriously, just find out who he talks to and stuff and talk to them and yeah...im sorry. :)
i think the other advise is good, if you really like him just ask him a bunch of stuff about himself.
2006-09-26 10:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Demetria S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about things that he is interested in, things he enjoys doing - Good Luck!
2006-09-26 10:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask how he's doing he's family and his life... then his love life
2006-09-26 10:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋