I overheard the 16 year daughter on the phone recently. She was telling her friend that her Dad told her that I am only living there on a trial basis, like temporary, you know? I love this man and am very upset. Should I ask him about it?
2006-09-26 10:17:21 · 16 answers · asked by TK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, Reese. Both "A" and "A" told us that Shane says you are temporary and you'll be gone soon. How does that make you feel about your great man now?
2006-09-26 10:37:46 · update #1
Yes i would ask him about it. So you can be prepared if he kicks you out. Tell him how you feel about him. My boyfriends 3 kids are a handful they go back and forth lying to us and to their mom and her bf. But i love my bf to death and i just overlook what they say. Maybe some day they will realize not to lie (but they probably won't b/c their mother is a habitual liar and she puts things in the childrens head all the time) Good luck and i hope everything works out okay.
2006-09-26 11:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but don't be too pushy. For all you know it could be a little fib she made up. Teenagers can be weird about these kinds of situations. Maybe she was telling her friend that to make herself feel better. Or maybe not. You don't know so don't accuse him. Just tell him how you feel and ask him if it's mutual. You need to find out exactly what his intentions are. If he says that he wants it to be serious ask him if he has shared that with his kids. Tell him that it's important to you that you are apart of their lives as long as your going to be together.
2006-09-26 10:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This why you shouldn't live with a man who is not your husband. Instead of asking your boyfriend about what he told his daughter, go around it and ask him where your relationship is going and what are his intentions. This way, you won't be labeled as "bad mouthing his daughter" (people get real defensive about their kids) and his daughter won't think you are a snitch. Good luck to you.
2006-09-26 10:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do not mention it too him. He will be very upset and then respond with "Why were you eavesdropping on my daughter's conversations?" She's 16, she could have made it up.
2006-09-26 10:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by nflhandicapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure would and I would also tell him I was ease dropping on his daughters phone conversation when i heard it ,you have the right to know if it is true
2006-09-26 10:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-09-26 10:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by September 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It will all turn around on you. 16 year old girls can be very mean... I feel it will turn into, "Dad, she moves in here and is now snooping on my phone calls!" And you won't be able to defend yourself.
2006-09-26 10:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it of course. You don't want to be with a man, taking care of his kids, and you are just the tester. Ask his a**.
2006-09-26 10:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by april j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it but in an open way, i mean don't be too defensive or agressive, listen to what he has to say first, give him the benefit of the doubt, besides you will be talking about his daughter, so careful to what you say about her...
2006-09-26 10:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry until you have a wedding ring, you are on a trial basis.
2006-09-26 10:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by ???///??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋