2006-09-26 10:17:20 · 12 answers · asked by Mauki90 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only way for your trust to be rebuilt is if the person who broke your trust helps u regain that trust in the process by not doing it again. If he's a compulsive liar by nature, he will need professional help. It is something he has to be willing to recognize and work with himself. Simply telling him not to lie again is not going to work.
2006-09-26 10:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If someone is really sorry or ashamed of what he/she did, then its possible to forgive that person, forget the past and start it all again - of course trust is the foundation of everything - it is not hard to rebuild trust if both partners promise to be sincere and never ever break the newly found trust - you can then start it again in a positive way, hoping for the brightest . However, if that person is not "really" ashamed of what he/she did in the past, then chances are there that he/she would betray you again and certainly in that way you can not trust the person no matter how hard you try . It all depends on the person's attitude who once betrayed you.
2006-09-26 10:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if the guy is a habitual cheater than forget him, you'll get over him eventually.
BUT
if there was something in your relationship which may have driven him to do that, AND if you can both work at it to get it out of the way
then YES it can be rebuilt and it would be an even better and a stronger relationship
I oughtta to know cos I've been there and we did it together and I have absolutely no regrets
2006-09-26 10:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Norman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A better tact: recognize that that person will keep using you until you make them stop.
YOU don't rebuild the trust - the person who broke it does.
2006-09-26 10:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.....you can try and "pretend" you trust them but your heart will never trust again.
Now my husband lied to me before we got married (he never cheated he lied about being out with friends when he was supposed to be working) and it took us MOVING and 1 year and 4 months for me to trust him again. Now, if he breaks it again i will leave and never look back. I tried once but never again.
2006-09-26 10:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are telling him ok when your finished with your affairs just know that I'll be right here desperately waiting for you.
Stop wasting your time and find someone new.
2006-09-26 16:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply sit down with him, tell him you love him, and that he's the one (if it's true in your case) then tell him EXACTLY how you feel. and that since it was he who betrayed you, he has to make it up to you, your not putting in any more effort towards this issue. then walk away, and don't let him see you cry. If he truly wants to make it up to you he will chase you, but if not, let him go, because you know it will never change.
2006-09-26 10:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, though you are so willing to commit more of your energy in making it work, but somehow fate and especially he are not working to hard to make anything happen...your stomach appreciated you saving some energy/ or just to remember all these bad memories.
2006-09-26 10:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can
It's probably best to get that person out of your life--they're just going to hurt you again eventually!
2006-09-26 10:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont.
You simply die a little inside, and resentment builds against the individual, with each passing day.
2006-09-26 10:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋