my bf is going to start staying in a town where his job is it's only 45 miles where i live but i work during the week so does he and he wants me to stay with him on the weekends. should i worry that he is going to go out and cheat on him!!! he told me that he wasnt going to... then once he finds a house then were going to move in together!!! what ever advice u guys can give thanks
2006-09-26 10:11:47 · 9 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you can't trust your boyfriend enough to be confident of his fidelity, you have no business moving in together. If your mistrust is based on HIS behavior, talk to him about it. If it's based on your own insecurity, you need to deal with THAT before you get involved seriously with ANYBODY, EVER.
2006-09-26 10:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't make this a self fufilling prophecy. decide if you trust him and if you do... don't give the cheating another thought. it sounds like a fine arrangement to me... during the week, when you get home from work, you may be a little lonely, and you might find yourself living for the weekends! give it a try and see if it works. =) being apart for the week might be very worth it.
2006-09-26 17:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more worried about your spelling abilities....he's most likely not going to cheat on you, unless you push the issue. If you are a jealous person, you can drive the other person away, just be cool and see how things work out...you never know until you've tried.
2006-09-26 17:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by spaceyinla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I think if you can not trust your partner then I believe there is no hope I mean you keep thinking this but is there cause . or is it just your insecurities.And accusing over and over may provoke cheating well if your going to accuse . I would have hard evidence
2006-09-26 18:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by jodeefla1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called TRUST, sweetie. i just spent 19 mos. in iraq with the ARMY. when i got home it was my wife that has held it all together. she is the love of my life and the mother of my children. we trust each other and believe in each other. and as silly as it seems, we actually talk to each other. dumb, huh? well it works. everything from what the kids did in school to what the meals are going to be. and we kiss each other b4 we go to sleep. you never know, you might not wake up!
2006-09-26 17:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by dew_19dlrrp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. He's doing what he needs to do to make a better life for both of you. Unless he's given you reason to mistrust him, knock of the BS. Or continue it and see how fast you can drive him away from you.
2006-09-26 17:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Opus 49 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you trust him or you don't - but don't worry (not productive). See him when you can and keep in touch during the week.
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 17:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him until he gives you a reason not to
2006-09-26 17:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worry. this is just how things going to be.
2006-09-26 17:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋