How old were you?? What kinda kiss?? What age should someone be??
If a parent says they agree that their child get their first kiss, but not open mouth and no longer that three seconds long is that wrong or positive communication??
2006-09-26 09:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My daughter is 13.
2006-09-26 09:48:54 · update #1
I was twelve(still am) it was closed mouth and it was like 5 seconds
IT WAS BAD WE WERE LIKE SMASHING OUR FACES TOGETHER!
I haven't kissed a boy since!
2006-09-26 10:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! either you have an open relationship with your daughter, or you want to have a say in everything she does. It will happen when it happens, if you talk about it too much you may be sending the wrong type of message to her about her feelings and her sexuality. these are things we can discuss with parents or friends but in the end we have to figure them out for ourselves. She may have already done a full on frenchie and she wants to tell you but she is just feeling out the waters, or she is anticipating a kiss from a certain guy and wants your womanly advice or your motherly approval. either way she needs to determine her own boundaries. i had my first real kiss which turned into a open mouth tongue thing when i was 14 1/2, i have friends who were 12, others who were 16. I think the best thing for you is not to have an overanalytical discussion about kissing. do you know how long your kisses are? are you timing them? I kknow im personally distarcted and caught up in the moment. Basically mom, i know its hard but she is going to grow up before you know it and you might have to start thinking about backing up a bit. unless yo uplan on following her on her dates, the you just need to save up for a good pair of binoculars.
2006-09-26 09:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by silverwaif77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the parents are setting a time limit on kisses? how old is the child?
my first (childhood peck) kiss was in 2nd grade. then (late bloomer that I was) had my first honest to goodness kiss-kiss when I was 16 at a party from Joe, the cutest boy I had ever seen - at least up until that point ;)
2006-09-26 09:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by ceece 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 13 and it was just a little kiss on the lips at first.
i would say13 -14 years old
2006-09-26 09:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt have to get my parents premission to be kissed. That is a choice that your child is entitled to
2006-09-26 09:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by cassidy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14, she was maybe 13. Full tonsil clean.
A you going to time them, or sellotape their lips together? Not realistic.
2006-09-26 09:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 14,it was cool
2006-09-26 10:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should let your daughter do whatever she wants and kiss however she likes, imean, how would that harm her, it would only help her to become more social.............parents theese days
2006-09-26 11:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them go at their own speed. just keep it to kissing.
2006-09-26 09:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by ctgirl206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend and her husband had their first kiss on their wedding day - this is how it should be done
2006-09-26 10:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋