My partner thinks that we can not be intimate. How can I tell him its okay and its a beautiful thing to be with each other...
2006-09-26 09:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by joyy_88 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
tell him that htere is nothing that is going to hurt the baby, if he is still worried ask him to go to a dr's visit with you.I had sex all the way until we had our kids.actually the dr's might tell u to have sex close to your due date because it can help u go into labor.the seamen can help thin your cervics out.
2006-09-26 09:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by christen p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be intimate even if you are pregnant nothing is gonna hurt the baby you can be as long as your doctor tells you other wise i'm almost 4 months pregnant and me and my partner are initmate if he wants to make sure it won't harm the baby he can call your doctor or either look in a baby book or prehaps online but do it in a safe position like guy on top LOL congrats and good luck to both of you ;)
2006-09-26 16:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by CountryGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner is just nervous about hurting the baby. Perhaps if you took him to your next doctor appointment, your doctor could explain to him that it's safe and healthy for you to continue to be intimate with each other for quite a while yet. This is a normal reaction for new dads, just be patient with him and enjoy your alone-time while you have it. Congratulations!
2006-09-26 16:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a book. Seriously. Let him see that doctors actually say it is fine to be intimate all the way up until the baby is actually coming out. It is common practice for couple to have sexual encounters when the woman is in heavy labor.
2006-09-26 16:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can me intimate all the way til the baby is born as long as its ok with the doctor. tell him that he helped to create such a beautiful thing and that your hormones are going to more intimate now and you will have to wait about 6 weeks after baby is here.
2006-09-26 16:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him to your next dr's appt and let the doctor tell him or look up sex during pregnancy and let him read the information provided! Sex is good for the baby and it doesn't harm the mother or the baby!! Tell him that pregnant women have the best sex and it's actually better when you're pregnant!!
2006-09-26 16:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing to do if you want to break it to him and have him believe you is to take him with you to an appoointment and have the doctor confirm it. Then there is no mistaking whether or not you can or can't and he won't feel the need to say ' I just want to be sure."
2006-09-26 16:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by littlemiss4705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a book on pregnancy, like "What to expect when you're expecting" maybe even go through it first and post-it the pages with info he needs the most.
2006-09-26 16:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Emily O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is afraid to hurt the baby make him go with you to the doctor and let her reasure him it is safe, of course if your pregnancy is healthy so far. Just no ruffing around
2006-09-26 17:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any book on pregnancy will tell you that its okay! You will probably enjoy it more too! Try one of my favorite books ... What to expect when you are expecting. Or look on line!
2006-09-26 16:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by mady'smom26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋