ok so i have this friend and shes lyin to me and stuff and i dont know wht to do i mean shes always startin dramam she talks about me behind my back ugh...HELP
2006-09-26 09:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok so i have this friend and shes lyin to me and stuff and i dont know wht to do i mean shes always startin drama and talkin bout me behind my back..ugh..HELP
2006-09-26 09:21:35 · update #1
friendship is based around trust and if you can't trust her, do you really have a friendship? I had to deal with this a little while ago in my own life. A friend of mine was lying about things we had done together on nights when I hadn't even seen her. It wouldn't have been so bad if she hadn't told my husband the same lies. After I found out it was her, I told her very calmly that I took trust serious in a friendship and obviously she didn't so I was terminating our friendship and that I would appreciate it if she wouldn't contact me anymore. She tried to call a couple times after that and I didn't answer. It was hard because we did have fun together but ultimately, it was not worth the worry of wondering when she would lie next.
2006-09-26 09:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by wunluv06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that if she has a problem with you that's fine. You don't care what she thinks because you haev more important things to worry about right? Whatever you do don't let it turn around on you and make it look like its your fault. Give her the silent treatment and leave her alone adn totally ignore her. If she comes back with an apology and a promise of not to do it again you know that she really misses you being her friend. If it happens again then just forget about her, you probably have better friends to hang out with and talk to anyway. *~LUCK~*
2006-09-26 16:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♥live laugh love ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend just like this. Talk to her first. She should know that what she's doing is hurtful already, but once she realizes that you know, maybe she'll stop. If you would like to know what i've done is i've done absotlutely nothing except for that my friend sent an email of what the question we asked on Yahoo Answers and i'm not sure if it has. If you don't care much about her, you may ditch her, but once she comes to her senses, i hope you two will be friends again.
Wish you luck!
2006-09-26 17:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by metle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend:
Pronunciation: 'frend
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English frend, from Old English frEond; akin to Old High German friunt friend, Old English frEon to love, frEo free
1 a : one attached to another by affection or esteem b : ACQUAINTANCE
2 a : one that is not hostile b : one that is of the same nation, party, or group
3 : one that favors or promotes something (as a charity)
4 : a favored companion
5 capitalized : a member of a Christian sect that stresses Inner Light, rejects sacraments and an ordained ministry, and opposes war -- called also Quaker
Hummmmmmmmmm..
Doesn't sound like a "friend" to me, she made the decision, not you!
2006-09-26 16:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the up font way 2 do it S confront her about it. I mean no secrets should B kept 4rm friends like that. I mean there R supposed 2 B secrets no matter what but this S something that shouldn't B! There R many ways 2 do this. U could IM me and we could talk it over F U would like
2006-09-26 16:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't classify her as a friend in the first place. Friends don't step over boundaries to hurt you. This person you speak of has many issues. I suggest you remove her from your life immediately because she'll just keep causing you grief. She's not worth spending anytime even thinking that she's your friend. It sounds like she likes to get attention at any cost...including hurting people who care about her. If she's absent from your life she can't hurt you anymore.
2006-09-26 16:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by sfss50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her first because you know your friend better than anyone else. Maybe its the other people who are talking crap and just pointing the finger at your friend. Ever heard the saying"misery loves company" weell thats excatly what drama and talk is.You need to loose that negativity all together and be alone cuz in the end its only you and yourself.If your friend is talkig crap or whom ever is just let bygones be bygones
2006-09-26 16:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by C I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it has always been like that then yall shouldnt be friends in the first place.but if its just one of those moments when she is just being a b**** then talk to her and tell her how you feel.ask her how that would make her feel and say"if you can either stop what your doing or lose a friend, wich one is it gonna be?"good luck gurllll!
2006-09-26 16:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by misslikestotalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the kerb mate. No friend would say stuff about you behind your back. Quite simple really. Unless your in love with her..LOL
2006-09-26 16:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by evilmilk2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is no friend after all .. real friends wouldn't do that... i know what you are going through your not alone on that one ..just need to walk away from her.. she isn't worth the time or the pain to hurt you... there's other out there ... as they say in the bible a friend would not forsake you and she has.. time to walk away and make new friends best of luck to you ......
2006-09-26 19:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by juleslovesbears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋