well i know im young 12 years and 9 months to be exact. but my girlfriend is having a baby she is 11. what should we do. her mom noticed when she was 1 month preg . and told my mom. they are so mad.
2006-09-26 09:19:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yesterday, you posted to say you didn't have a girlfriend, and how could you pleasure yourself. Make your mind up!
2006-09-26 09:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi i guess you can understand why your mums are mad, so i have no need to go into that one. But the first thing you should do is to get girlfriend to the doctor and see what he/she says. They will give advice, but i dont know what you can do from here. You know you were in the wrong anyways and you should of used protection and if you were having sex at a young age why didnt you go to the family planning and get some birth control. Anyway its to late for that, but if you are planning on staying with her do this in the future.
2006-09-26 16:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and u wonder why your mom and her mom are mad?????
You are both under age so somebody will have to raise that child since yoiu have both shouwn you are incapable of doing so.
Now stop the sex period you have seen what happens you are also putting your girlfriend in danger as she is not fully developed herslef and now she has to cope with giving birth to a baby its time for both of u to grow up the best thing you can do is put the child up for adoption to be raised by someone who wants a child
2006-09-26 16:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i no im older than you at 16 but when i was 15 i went though all that and i no it recks your head but you really have to do man its to sit down with your girlfriend and disscus your relationship, and how it will affect you.
do you want a baby hanging over you at your age?
do you really feel ready to have sex at 12?(i no that sounds stupid but oh well)
you really need to ask each other these questions lad it may take so time hour 2 3 but it'll be worth it also take into concideration what your parents want you to do and also what her's want her to do?
I really hope this helps man i know it recks head just put another on tomorrow if you want me to say more.
2006-09-26 17:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by jbw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years old is not the youngest to be pregnant. This is none of your mother's business and she should stay out of it. If this were your friend or her mother asking for advice, I would recommend, for many reasons, that she have an abortion immediately. Your friend is not well enough equipped physically, mentally, intellectually or emotionally to have a child at this age.
2006-09-26 16:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by TweetyBird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all of these answers are so insensitive! You're just a kid! He's just a kid, people, he's not Thomas Jefferson, who had all the answers. I'm just really hoping that you and your girlfriend have amazing parents who are going to help you both through this. I don't blame you for this. I blame the oversexed society in which we live.
2006-09-28 21:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your moms will be mad - they should be mad. they are mad because they love your friend so much. If they weren't it would be worse because they wouldn't care. Let them be mad, they will still take care of your friend. They still love her and they still love you. Be there for your friend, she has a lot of hard decisions an 11 year old shouldn't have to make.
2006-09-26 16:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you should have weighted you didn't know all of the consquences... talk to your parents..i know it sucks really bad but they can help... also talk to your girlfriend and ask her what she wants to do with the baby...you're parents might be a lot more understanding than you think...i really hope everything turns out okay for you.
2006-09-26 19:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a perv of a little boy. You realize you just destroyed a young girls life.
2006-09-26 17:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Halloween freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up asap and raise the baby.
2006-09-26 16:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by O.K.Q.T. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋