you were going to live in the same house with your spouse until the day you died. Come home and hear the same story every day. Never have children, never bungie jump, dance, climb down a rocky cliff to rescue a floating tire tube or have a tight knit group of friends that you and your husband could hang with?
2006-09-26 09:06:43 · 14 answers · asked by Shebaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TO APRIL G (AND OTHERS WONDERING) I married him because he is decent, caring and stable.
2006-09-26 09:16:37 · update #1
If you told me that, I would tell you that you are a poor predicter of the future, lol. I decide how I run my life, and you can decide how you run your life too. Take charge! "There is no fate" - Terminator 2.
2006-09-26 09:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are married to this guy doesn't mean you have to give up your dreams. You can bungie jump, dance and climb down a bunch of rocky cliffs. If you can't find a close knit group of friends for you as a couple, be sure to find some for your self. Sounds to me like you are not really living. Why not live the life you desire until you die?
2006-09-26 09:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife doesn't want children, and she would never bungie jump, but I can still get her to dance (with a bit of a struggle). She'll still go out and do fun things with me. I'm more outgoing than her, and she likes to stay in the house a lot, but you compromise. Marriage isn't always a picnic. And you know, if you want to climb down a rocky cliff, do it. He won't join you, but that's his problem. He can come watch you... take pictures... cheer you on, whatever.
2006-09-26 09:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rainier 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about the children part. You might be amazed at how many people have lives pretty much like that. Make the best of what you have and look for little opportunities to brighten it now and then.
2006-09-26 09:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
geeze, thats depessing! would i? NO WAY !!!!!!! hes nice and caring? big deal! it takes more than that in a marriage and in life!!! are you just going to sit and dry up and die? without ever living? living is more than going to work and coming home. coming home to what? why did you put yourself in such a marriage? why does he not want any of these things? is he depressed? are you going to do things alone? then why bother being married? i dont understand!
2006-09-26 09:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by kini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, don't you like doing all those exciting things you mentioned? Then why don't you go ahead and do them?
Are you the person who runs your life, or what? When did you give all control of your life away to someone else? If you want to do those things, then do them. We don't care. Have fun.
2006-09-26 22:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as I come home to my husband nothing else matters to me.
2006-09-26 09:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really depressed and wonder why anyone would marry into that situation in the first place.
2006-09-26 09:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by lelecw14 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay single - you'll be happier.
But what if I told you that marriage was one of the greatest adventures you will ever take? What if it is the exact opposite of what you said, and it's fun and amazing?
2006-09-26 09:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have married because you can see your self growing old with him in a happy, loving, secure relationship, if you can't see yourself old with them then they aren't the one to marry
2006-09-26 09:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer Dalpe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋