my girlfriend of 3 months is the jealous type. She gets mad at me because I check my best friend's email since she doesn't have access at home. I don't get to hang out with my best friend nor chat on the phone as much. I sacaficed a lot for her but she's still jealous...even if I mention a female celebrity that becomes an issue. Should I stay with a person like that or leave? Yes, I do love her.
2006-09-26 09:02:48 · 27 answers · asked by Matlock06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should leave, because most people who are this insecure never get over it. If you choose to stay with her, get used to her checking your cell phone, your email, your internet usage, etc., and get used to being accused of cheating on a regular basis.
2006-09-26 09:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've been with a person for 90 days and you love her. She's jealous, gets mad if you check another girl's email, can't see your best friend much, have sacrificed lot, she's unreasonable to the point of you not being able to say the word "Beyonce" without her going mental... and you think she's someone GOOD for you?
I really don't see why people put up with this sort of crap. If this is how you want to spend the rest of your life, then go for it.
I think if you asked your best friends about her, they'd tell you what.
It's only been 90 days- she wasn't sweet for very long, was she?
2006-09-26 16:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs to see a therapist. You didn't mention her age or when the jealousy took over, but I speak only from experience. I am a very confident woman and have never had trouble attracting men, but at some point in my relationship, I just became a jealous monster for no good reason. My BF was the nicest, most caring guy, but I couldn't help get jealous of every woman around him. I hate to admit it now, but I thrived on the drama of fighting and having him apologize (for doing nothing wrong) and telling me how much he loved me. Horrible cycle! It got worse before I finally realized my behavior was irrational and I needed to seek help or lose him. You should be comfortable being yourself and not be forced to make sacrifices that will change who you are. Before you know it, you won't recognize yourself and resent her.
2006-09-26 16:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, you need to dump her....no man or woman can or should control each other. There are plenty of women who will love you just as much if not more then she does and give you your space and freedom. You should never be limited to hanging out with your friends or even talking about female celebrities. That's just plain weird that she gets so upset. You need to let this girl go and let her be someone else's problem. You are not in a healthy relationship.
2006-09-26 16:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by skeptical 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE! It's only been three months. You are not in love. She is just new. People always think they are in love while the relationship is still new. Jealous people are insecure and have too many issues. You don't sound like you are happy and you claim to have "sacraficed a lot for her" and it's only been three months. Leave!!!!
2006-09-26 16:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little jealousy is okay but sounds like your girl is taking it to the limit. does she know your best friend? you say you love her but are you IN love with her? there is a difference. if she is being like this only three months into the relationship, what do you think she will be like later. if you can handle it, stay with her. i would talk to her but if she still insists that you not talk to your friends, i would seriously think about finding someone who would be more understanding. good luck.
2006-09-26 16:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by panther 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it and find out what and where this jealousy is coming from. May be this is something from her past and if it is, help her speak out and give her time to recover.
If the situation is not getting any better then you know what to do, move on. Do not wait till she becomes angry and violent.
2006-09-26 16:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive learned a lot about relationships by of course being in them...ive also learned that love is a feeling that you feel. Just like being sad...its a feeling...if ur not happy in the relationship...its best for you to not be in it.
Its very true...that if ur in love, it doesnt always mean that that is the one for you. Sorry to say, it sucks, i know!
Jealousy is also a feeling...talk to her about the strees that overcomes on you about thus...communication is always the best remedy for love...
2006-09-26 16:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by She 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to decide what is more important your girlfriend or your friends e/mail. If you choose your girlfriend than you have to respect her wishes and try not to do something to make her jealous.
2006-09-26 16:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless on what you do and say, she is still going to be jealous! that will never change. you should just kick her to the curb before you guys get further in your relationship.
2006-09-26 16:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by MaMi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋