I dumped him because he constantly called me [I'm talking about 5-7 hour calls a day] plus my friend was putting presure on me and kept telling me to break up with him....so yeah I did... Anyways...when school started I was beggining to like him again and he still liked me....so I was gonna ask him out one day, but he asked the friend that told me to break up with him out!!!!! And she said 'Yes' and she knew I still liked him! He told me he is going out with her because she makes him laugh and he feels comfortable around her [He use to dislike her too]....I don't know what to do...Does anyone know how I could get him to like me?
2006-09-26 08:59:05 · 2 answers · asked by Jessica Ushiromiya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't get someone to like you. What happens in that game happens. You can't explain it or predict it. You just keep living your life. They sound happy. Be happy about it.
In the future, have a conversation with your significant other about the things that are bothering you rather than assuming they are doing it on purpose. He probably thought you liked it. How could he know?
2006-09-26 09:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the real reason you would want him back? You broke off the relationship because he was taking up a lot of your time. Now that your friend is going out with him you are questioning your decision. You did the right thing. Let her deal with his dependence. It also sounds like he needs someone to entertain him.
One of the most important things you can do for yourself when considering a relationship is to make a list of things that you need in the relationship, i.e. honesty, communication, etc. and things you would like but don't necessarily need. If the person that you are thinking about can't meet your needs, don't even waste your time. Don't think you can change him. It won't happen. You will meet someone that you connect with. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Just think about your question. Is there something wrong with you that needs to be changed? Why would anyone even consider trying to change who they are for another person. If he can't like you the way you are open the door and hope the door knob hits him in the *** on his way out.
2006-09-26 16:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tetonka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋