2006-09-26 08:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not a fair question, because only a person you care about has the power to hurt you. Think about it -- if a stranger says something insulting to you, it's not really going to hurt your feelings. Only people you care about have that power over you. The more you love a person, the more power you are giving him to hurt you. In any long-term relationship, people being only human, someone you love will hurt you at some point.
2006-09-26 09:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. I'm can't say you are wrong. I guess us men are sometimes prone to what I will call "bad behavior" for lack of a better term. Bad because we want to be? No, just humane nature and proof that no one is perfect. I think we all (men and women) are guilty of not being perfect. Why the ones we love? Because no one else cares what we do. If they don't care it would be impossible to hurt them. Make sense?
2006-09-26 09:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if they are going to hurt someone, statistically it would be the person they are around the most. However, I want to know why most women hurt the person that loves them the most?
2006-09-26 09:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hurt the people I love the most because I'm scared they will hurt me first and i dont want that. So i push them away.
2006-09-26 09:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Freeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are like that because they are stuped they dont know what they have good in front of there faces. i'v been with my wife for 9yrs been mairred 4 5yrs. i love who i'm with i'm 29 shes 23 u have to date befor u jump in a relayshionship. date around find the wight guy. take your time ufind the right one!
2006-09-26 09:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by blue_van_1998 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you must know MOST men...you're very popular person!
People sabotage relationhsips all the time and usually due bad programming (stinkin thinkin).
Do yourself a favour and find some mature guys, you'll find they won't hurt you...
2006-09-26 09:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone thinks they love a man 'the most'
the truth is, you are all liars and fake and selfish and only worry about yourself.
you can tell you are like that. your questions is even "boo hoo - why did he hurt ME? what about ME?!?"
love is both ways.
gotta see past your own nose, kiddo.
2006-09-26 09:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by bigfaninboston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are men...they don't feel like we do, they just do whatever comes in their head and then think about how bad they screwed up later on when we leave. thats why they try to get us back.
2006-09-26 08:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Katy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bcuz deep down inside they are all assholes, they don't mean to they're just natural **** ups but we love them
2006-09-26 09:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by jennie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuz they don't feel things the way women do
2006-09-26 09:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋