Just about all your friends have boyfriends and you dont. One of your friends acts like she is better than you. And then you other friend is all about her boyfriend. And your brother is agervating you really bad and you feel like hurting him really bad.
How would feel and what would you do about it.
2006-09-26 08:49:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah they do. One of my friends have already had 2! And it makes me feel like i am the ugliest person in the world
2006-09-26 08:54:00 · update #1
1. i agree w/ beating up your brother hahah or just do really mean things 2 him.. like pour maple syrup in his fav shoes... delete everything from his ipod... when hes sleeping, pour a bucket full of ice on his chest hahah... stuff like that...
2. if your friend acts like she is better than you then.. just tell her how u feel and let her know that she is not better than anyone else... its ussualy just an insecurity issue, bc by acting like shes better than u she feels better about herself.... if she continues.. it means that she doesnt appreciate your frienship bc she is not willing to accept her mistakes.
3. all your friends having boyfriends, does suck... ive been there... how bout getting involved in a sport, club, church or another social thing that will get u 2 meet lots of cute guys and... dont b afraind 2 ask guys out.. ud b surprised how many guys r shy of asking girls out, so if u take the incentive you will b dating lots of guys in no time... Also, remind your friends that boyfriends come and go ... so its not a good idea to forget about your friends when you have a boyfriend bc when that boyfriend breaks up w/ u who will u go 2?
and u sound depressed about all of this.... dont b ... just look at ways 2 get around the situation... =D
2006-09-26 09:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks being single when everyone around you has somebody- I don't envy your position right now. Does your friend know she's hurting you when she goes on about her boyfriend? If not, tell her. If she does know, and still insists about talking this guy up just to hurt you, then she's not your friend. Of course your brother's going to aggravate you about this- that's what siblings do. It sounds like a cliche, but the moment you stop actively looking for a boyfriend, one will pop up. Don't just jump into the first relationship you can find b/c you need to be with somebody- take your time, make sure he's the right one for you, and you'll be much happier. In the meantime, pay attention to your friends when they're around their boyfriends- they might not be as happy as you think!
2006-09-26 15:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rob C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, brothers and sister are always like that, they are pain in the butt. One of these days (far from now), you will remember and miss that pain. So, calm down and be a pain to him,. but don’t hurt him too much.
If your friends are making you feel bad and you no longer fit it too well, it time for you to search out new hobbies and friends that you have in common with. That does not mean that you should drop your old friends, you can still hang out with them if you like, but give yourself some options.
2006-09-26 15:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by timer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age a boyfriend is a status thing. Which is exactly the way you see it.
They have it, they are better than me, I'm ugly... etc.
Sweety.... remember that at your age what you should really be doing (besides focusing on your school work, home and family) is seeing what type of boys you get along with.
Have fun.. get a lot of guy friends and then just be yourself. One will perk up!!!
2006-09-26 15:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,life is not about having b/f's and changing them like you change clothes,theres much more to it and trust me you rae the lucky one to be out of this,these are your days to concentrate on your academisc and then you have along way to go,you'll find better guys to be with!!
2006-09-26 15:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, beat down the brother.
Then...concentrate on school activities and making other friends, they can't all have b/f's already.
2006-09-26 15:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know how you feel...juss see it this way. you're single and available...you're free to look and flirt as you please. you can sample the market without having someone naggin at you about it. enjoy it..
2006-09-26 16:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Me? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋