i dunno, all the sudden it seems like all of my friends are being mean to me. they make fun of me, dont include me, and say mean things to me. i dont know what i did, but i try to be nice to them, but that doesnt help, and i hate going to school because i kno they'll just be mean to me. i cant talk to them about it, cuz then that'll just make things worse. i need help
2006-09-26 08:31:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh and my friends r on the dance and volleyball team with me, so im around them all day, and i dont have ne1 else 2 hangout w/ so yea....
2006-09-26 08:39:14 · update #1
It sounds like they aren't your friends. Don't be nice to people who don't respect you, that will only make them disrespect you more. Instead, make some new friends, people that will treat you with respect and that will build you up instead of tearing you down.
2006-09-26 08:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by moonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time to make new friends. It's easier than you think. The same thing probably just happened to someone else in your school, and they're looking for a friend too.
2006-09-26 15:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by guyotgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I have been in that same position. You don't need them as friends. You need to find new ones. Why do you want friends who put you down and friends who are mean to you? There are friends out there who don't treat you like this. My friends were doing this to me in high school and I stopped talking with them I didn't have to have anything to do with them and I started to feel better about myself and I got new friends.
2006-09-26 15:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Proble Set Someone Off. Or There Jealeous Of You
2006-09-26 15:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥I know these things♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they are acting like that for no reason then i would not call them friends act like it doesnt bother you start hanging out with new people just ignore them it really does work well good luck hope everything goes well
2006-09-26 15:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by becky w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. These one's aren't your friends if they make u feel that way. Get into some sort of extracurricular activity where you can meet new friends. There's always someone else out there looking for friends. Believe me, I know.
2006-09-26 15:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Miss T..........in a way...
if they matter that much to u then maybe u ought to try to figure out what u did wrong unconsciously....dont break ur head over it...just think....life is too short and too beautiful for regrets and sadness dear...
i know how u feel cuz the same hapnd to me but my friends didn't talk to me cuz back then,i didn't tell them that i found a guy i liked and that i started going out with him......they felt that i considered them strangers so.............maybe u did something like that?
whatever it is....m sure u shudnt think too much abt it...
good luck!
bless u!
2006-09-26 15:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by questiongirl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T be NICE!!! I'm serious. Act like it dosen't bother you at all and try to get new friends. The fun will be over when they see that they aren't bothering you and most likely things will go back to normal.
2006-09-26 15:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Miss T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl! i dont know y u cant figure this out but if they did this 2 u out of the blue then obviously, they arent ya true friends!! they're just phony chicks and ur a better person and better off w/out them
2006-09-26 16:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by DJ Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider new friends as these ones dont seem to be real ones anyway.
2006-09-26 15:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋