I have a friend that gets jelous when I even look at his wife, but he doesnt do that with everyone. I am confused cause I dont flit with his wife, I am nice to her. why do you think he is like that towards me ?
2006-09-26 08:28:23 · 23 answers · asked by ronnie n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just stop going around your friends wife and see what happens then. real friends don't get jealous of each other.
2006-09-26 08:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can ruin a relationship faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly and is rational when jealous. Jealousy will often change to the non valiant abuse.
Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them. Evidently he is more insecure about you then about other people you know there is nothing you can do about it just to avoid him and stop friendship. Friends are not jealous about friends just opposite.
2006-09-26 15:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think that u are better then him in some ways that are threatening to their relationship. Maybe his wife likes u and he knows. Just get him drunk one day and ask him it couldn't hurt. Just tell him u wanna know why he thinks u want his wife.
2006-09-26 15:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not go around his wife. Give him time to ask why you don't come around anymore, then ask him why he acts the way he does when you are around her. If he is your friend and you want to keep it that way, he at least owes you an explanation, right? Maybe, he doesn't realize he acts that way.
2006-09-26 15:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that the two of them were talking one day and she mentioned that she thought you were the best looking (or whatever) of his friends or anything like that... or maybe he thinks you are the best and doesnt want his wife to catch on. unless you are insanely hot... or maybe he knows your dick is bigger than his or something...
it could be anything
you should tell your friend that your not after his wifey and prove that there is no reason to act al jealous.
2006-09-26 15:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you look good and he is worried or his wife said you were nice or cute. I wouldnt know my husband won't let any other man around me anytime no matter what.
2006-09-26 15:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably intimidated by you or maybe she thinks you're cute and has told him in one of those "which of my friends do you think is good looking " days, questions that couples should never ask each other!
2006-09-26 16:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Roze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are better looking then him and he worries. Surprised he's still friends with you....or maybe his wife has told him she thinks you're hot.
2006-09-26 15:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks that u like his wife cus ur nice to her if i was u i well talk to ur friend and tell him y he is like this to u talk to him thats o i have to say take care hope thing work out with u and ur friend
2006-09-26 15:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by cookiemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea to stay far away from his wife.
2006-09-26 15:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋