My husband's ex-girlfriend calls him from time to time and tells him that she thinks about him all the time and wants to know if that matters to him? She asks him if he will take her back? and I might add that this is the same girl that cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend YES!!! My ex and I broke up after 4 years, because she cheated on my husband with him and as fate would have it my husband and I ended up together married now for over a year and have a 1 year old little boy together! I told me ex- to just stay away and he has, he has moved on and it was hard for him but he has.but, my husband's ex will not move on she keeps popping up! My husband has told her over and over that he wants nothing to do with her, and that he is happily married and loves his wife and child What should I do? He has already had to get his cell number changed! now she is calling him at work SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME???? I love my husband and trust him, but I dont want her in our family picture!!!!
2006-09-26 08:28:09 · 25 answers · asked by YOUKNOWYOUWANNAKNOW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you should take matters into your own hands. This is YOUR man. stand up for yourself! next time she calls or shows her face...you show her what you think of her trying to take your man away! that ***** cheated on him when she had him and now she is done. the two of you are MARRIED! i hope she gets a nic punch inthe face from you because apparantly telling her no isnt working.
2006-09-26 08:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order on her. My husband had to get his cell phone # changed too b/c the ex wouldn't stop calling. She was jealous of me and thought that he would take her back well she thought wrong. We had called the police to try and get her for harassment but they said that as long as their was kids involved there was nothing that they could do. They said that she has a right to call when the kids were there. But get this, she would call when they weren't even here. So since we couldn't get her for harassment we just stopped answering her calls. I guess if its that important she can leave it on the answering machine! We do get the kids but we had it set up where we go through an exchange center (where another person takes the children to another room where the other parent is) that way we don't have to see her nor hear her mouth. But anyways good luck in your situation. I hope everything works out!
2006-09-26 08:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very very happy. why? your husband change his phone number. than mean a lot for a adult. The reason is business contact, family notification, and etc. just to get away from this woman. So he is not cheating. that is good right? As for calling at work, he should take of that by himself. As for being in the family picture, how can she get in when you are the wife of the house?
2006-09-26 08:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok your Husbands ex is a psycho but my question is how did she get his cell phone number in the first place his work # I understand but his cell # I dont understand if hes told her to move on then she shouldnt have his cell phone number and he never should had to change the cell # unless hes been calling her from his cell phone and she got the number from her caller Id how else would she have gotten his cell number?and second of all if he has been calling her on his cell phone then hes sending her mixed messages shes his ex not yours so it is up to him to put a stop to this but theres no reason for him to change the cell number keep it simple he just needs to let her know shes making an A SS out of herself or better yet you could do what I did to my husbands ex and tell her yourself that shes making an even bigger A ss out of herself chasing after your Husband who has moved on and this will do one or two things P iss her off even more or she will realize that you are right and she will get a life and man of her own.
2016-03-27 11:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are anti-stalking laws. This woman is sick. I've seen enough made for TV- true stories on the Lifetime channel to know that situations like this can get really hairy. If possible, he needs to have his calls at works screened. He needs to hang up immediately if she does get a call in. If she is following him, he does need to see the authorities and have a restraining order put on her. You need to be observant as well. There is a good possibility she could be watching/following you as well. She took one of your men,,,now she's working on another. Be careful and proceed with caution.
2006-09-26 08:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore this woman. Don't answer her call. Depending on the work enviroment let them know to screen the phone calls. Also if it get really bad find out what legal actions you can take to protect your self and your family.
2006-09-26 08:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to stop taking the calls or change the number. If he hasn't gotten over the hurt, he should've never married you.
2006-09-26 08:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by TIRED 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She keeps bringing the problem to you?
Bring it back to her Go to her house or take a day off work and go to her job, get your son and hubby dress nice and give her a little family visit!
be blunt and have your husband do all the talking... he NEEDS to personally tell her to move on and basically embarrass her... she will never forget it and the pain of seeing him and you with your son will hurt her soo much she will HAFTO move on. Its happend and its worked. GOOD LUCK, and pray to GOD about her, ask him (with faith) to take her away from your lives by bringing another man into her life. please never wish bad or harm on anyone for it can come back to you.
2006-09-26 08:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Social 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her calls, tell her you will most definatly get a restraining order to stop her contact if she continues. This is harrassment. Ask an attorney if this should be done in writing. I bet she stops then!!!
2006-09-26 08:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by cindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's not getting the hint, have him completely ignore her, eventually she will go away. That means when she calls him at work he just doesn't answer it or tell the receptionist to screen his calls. Good luck sweetie, I've been there, it will eventually go away.
2006-09-26 08:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋