have you ever heard the saying the more you pull them closer to you the more they pull away!!!
2006-09-26 08:13:44 · 13 answers · asked by ariana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes i have heard that saying before but i don't think that it's true...
2006-09-26 08:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's simply saying don't expect too much and don't be too demanding or controlling. The minute you start to look controlling, it scares guys away. But there are limits, when u respect each other and let each other know where u'll be, that's not really being controlling, it's part of trust and honesty in a relationship.
2006-09-26 08:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by ladida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is, the tighter you hold...... and pull or hold are the key words in this old saying..... we are born free and should go out of this world the same way.... and by free i mean, who we are..... ppl try so hard to change each other and mold them to *fit* their own lives and personalities, instead of embracing who they are.... I am just as quilty as the next person..... we all think we are right and the other is wrong, emotions, thinking, actions, etc...... but as we grow, that is one leason we really need to focus on learning...... the word individual means just that.... we are each ONE !!! so dont pull or tug or hold tight, use a light feather touch of love, and string of gossamer lightness, and you will be surprised......... God bless
2006-09-26 08:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is so true and sometime you can mess up a good thing if you're not careful, just like if your parents were against your relationship and you wanted to be with that person so bad you would clug to that more and forget about what your parents think, so, if you love him you better be careful
2006-09-26 08:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but I think trying to force someone ("how can I make him like me?") isn't the way to go. Clingy, needy people aren't very attractive, and the more grabby one becomes, the less attractive they are.
2006-09-26 08:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is 100 percent true. If you are running behind them or If you keep up with your heart out there for them to crush, they'll make sure he or she does it good.
2006-09-26 08:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it is true cos they don't like to be caged,they love there space and freedom and you should provide them with the same for a healthy and a balanced relationship!!
2006-09-26 08:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that and there is also another saying: If you love them, let them go. If they love you they will come back.
2006-09-26 08:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Basically, don't smother anyone. Let them be and the relationship will flow.
2006-09-26 08:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that it is true because if you both feel the same way about each other then you shouldn't have any problem
2006-09-26 08:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by God Is Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋