I am 27 yrs old and I think this guy I work with is cute. I don't know if he has a g/f (though i'm sure he might) and I have a b/f. I have been staring at him so much, I had an explicit dream about him last night!!!!! Again, I'm not trying to get with him cause I do have a b/f, but I just think he's really HOT! Do people my age have crushes or is it just safe to say that I'm just attracted to him? Would you call him a crush or just a lustful attraction? Or are they one in the same? Just looking for opinions and different point of views.
2006-09-26 07:38:44 · 5 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No such thing, as long as your both of age. I have a huge crush on a woman at work who is near my age(49), but I know it won't go anywhere. I'd sure like it to, and I fantasize sometimes about it. But it stops there. She is married and I am single. Don't cheat on your bf.
2006-09-26 08:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the cut off for crushes is death
enjoy it, just don't act on it
2006-09-26 14:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People your age have crushes, people my age (33) have crushes, people twice my age have crushes. Don't sweat it. Enjoy the fantasy. Unless it begins to affect your relationship with your sig. other. As long as you're not doing anything with it, and it's not interferring with your existing relationship, you're fine.
2006-09-26 15:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by xanex_caligula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there is a cut off age for crushing. as long as you don't act on your feelings by cheating on your boyfriend, have a crush!
2006-09-26 14:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your mind right woman you have a man...its ok to have attractions just don't act on it
2006-09-26 14:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋